his time with his mother. The harmful chemical substances in
cigarette smoke, especially nicotine which is toxic, affect the
breast milk and this leads to
weakened immunity in the child,
making him vulnerable to lung disease, slow growth and heart
problems.
Over and above the dangers of diseases that may affect the
infant, there is another danger
which is the lack of a good
example. Every father and mother who smokes should ask
himself or herself this question: am I a good example for my
child?
The answer is definitely no because there is no mother who
wants her child to smoke. When you smoke
in front of your child
that is regarded as a kind of training, and when he is able to
smoke he will not hesitate.
Hence both parents have to stop smoking and the new child
whom they love dearly gives them a
motive to put an end to the
habit of smoking.
Arguments between the parents in front of
the children
There is a difference between discussions in which the father and
mother express their different points
of view calmly in order to
solve problems, and arguments which stem from conflicts
between the father and mother which happen in front of the
children and which may escalate to the
level of using bad words
and trading insults, which causes a deep wound in the psyche of
the children.
Small children need stability; the child
needs to feel safe and
secure and to develop confidence in himself and in the people
around him, which will never happen in a house that is filled with
conflict between the father and mother.
Studies have shown that children who grow up in a house filled
with arguments and quarrelling between
the father and mother
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