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Finish Give Yourself the Gift of Done
Fun goals win.
The crazy thing is that the aggressively nonfun approach doesn’t work. It might make you look good on Instagram as you impress your friends with your miserable grind, but scientifically speaking, joyless goals fail. When you study goal setting you look at a variety of statistical factors, but the two most interesting are: (1) satisfaction, and (2) performance success. One speaks to how you felt about the process and the second focuses on what you actually got done. A great finishing principle will dramatically increase both. It doesn’t do either of us any good if I teach you something that increases your satisfaction but decreases your performance success. You’ll be smiling all the way to last place. And if your performance success soars while your satisfaction plummets, you’ll be a miserable winner. This is why some of the most outwardly successful people you know are some of the saddest. They crushed the second metric but forgot the first mattered, too. This was why I was getting better at table tennis but wasn’t really having fun. To have a great principle, both satisfaction and performance success must be present. Fun is one of those approaches that checks both boxes. If the thousands of participants in the 30 Days of Hustle program are any indication, choosing a goal you believe will be enjoyable increases your likelihood of satisfaction by 31 percent. This might be the most obvious scientific conclusion ever made. Of course your satisfaction level will go up when you do something you enjoy. This just in: Eating ice cream is fun! But that’s not where the research ends. The second benefit to picking something you enjoy is that it increases performance success by 46 percent. You perform better when you pick something you think is fun. Study after study has confirmed this. The common myth about high-level performance is that it must be grueling, painful, and difficult. But the scientists researching elite swimmers found to their surprise that even at the 5:30 A.M. practices, the swimmers “were lively, laughing, talking, enjoying themselves.” They continued, “It is incorrect to believe that top athletes suffer great sacrifices to achieve their goals. Often, they don’t see what they do as sacrificial at all. They like it.” Crawl in the mud all you want, open-mouth kiss electrical wires. Fill your pants with moray eels. I don’t care. The best way to accomplish something is just the opposite of all that. Fun isn’t optional. It’s necessary if you’re going to kill perfectionism and make it through to done. Download 1.11 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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