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THE STORY OF HOTAMI TOYI
A pure-natured man asked Hotami Toyi: "Since the work of your palms is generous, yourself-have you seen anyone like He answered and said: "One day I made a big feast and invited all the people living in this desert. A hundred camels and countless sheep and lambs were slaughtered for the feast. Once I went out into the desert to have a little rest before the guests. At that moment, an old man appeared in front of me, struggling, carrying thorny branches on his back, his body bent under the load, a cane pole attached to him, stopping every step and catching his breath every time he took a breath. His smoking agony seemed to set fire to my heart, and looking at him, I cried out with grace and mercy: "Oh, the person whose height is reduced by the burden of hardships, whose body is tormented by the thorn of sorrow! Didn't you find out that there was a convocation at Hotam's house today, didn't you go to the party at his house? Hotam invites everyone to be a guest and welcomes everyone, good and bad! I said, throw away your thorn, reach the flower of honor, get up without much trouble, and go to the destination you were called to. Realizing that I was worried about him, he raised his head and laughed and replied: "O, whose feet are chained by greed and whose neck is tied by the rope of greed and begging, step into the valley of zeal. a person who has not crossed the fence of effort! You too taste the pain of this thorn, so- You don't hear the praise of Hotam Toyi!" These words of his were reasonable, and he had great respect for me." O Navoiy , if you had the courage , Hotami Toyi would become your slave . SIXTH CHAPTER ABOUT MANNERS Peopleʼs wealth and the world, isnʼt honor and reputation but modesty and manners are considered an honor. Because just as the beginning of rain is modestly, each drop of rain turns the soil into Chemistry. Dishonest people arenʼt honorable. High sky will lower different people. One of the dishonest is laughter, laughter is sign of lack of manners. Because of its laughter the partridge sings loudly, this kind of laughter brings various misfortunes. The bud opened without a sound, and after opening it scatters. Because of its laughter lighting fall inside the mountain, and leveled it with the ground. The early morning without a sound reveals its beauty, the sunʼs rays spread its rays over it like incense. When laughter exceeds the limit, crying becomes much better as the candle weeps every night and reveals itself the wind blows away the buds that laugh at it. While the cloud sheds tears in a low voice, the lighting collapses from laughter. Decent people donʼt laugh too much. But the cloud of modesty isnʼt without drop. If the laughter is accompanied by humor, the image of the two of them is reminiscent of a frog jumping to the tune. A man who tries to make people laugh by wearing a beard brings laughter to his beard. A clown eats exactly two slaps for a dime to get a laugh.The owl also looks in terms of appearance a clown so the birds attack it to beat it. All these clowns, immediately to dissapear modesty and manners should be. When the sun shone, the darkness of the night was forced to enter the depths of the earth. Every intelligent person speaks his words intelligently. Only the drunken man spoke laudly. When the fox and the dog open the door, when the lion appears, everyone runs away from the house. Modesty or decency, though reason only praises them, isnʼt equal to public opinion. For example, they have to be seen and done according to each personʼs situation. For example, if he shows long respect to rich slave, he is himself is good, and people donʼt respect him well, prostrating in front of a beggar isnʼt charity, but charity is giving him dirhams. It isnʼt considered manners to stand up for a child. Old people donʼt consider such work to be manners. In this case, he will be intelektual and you will be a light-hearted person. That is why people condemn doing these two things. It is important to follow its specific conditions in manners. How to treat everyone, how good and respectable he is towards you. You should treat others well. Whether they have a lower or higher reputation than you. Even if they do things differently, you have to deal with the account you will see the answer to this kind of work on the Day of zudgment. In general, it is an obligation to treat everyone well. Even if someone is lower than you in rank and is under your judgment, even if his words and complaints arenʼt pleasing to you , according to the hadiths of our Prophet, you should be nice to him and refrain from giving him fertilizer about words. It is necessary to always do good to such people and at the same time aware of their condition. It is necessary to hope that this will be the respect shown to them. If you have spouse, you should show them the same kindness. There is much wisdom in raising children. The rain to for educate, the drop, had the honor of going up. Another is to give a good name to the child. It is necessary to give a name so that people donʼt fell ashamed when they call it. There are also many differentces in names. One is Hussein. the other is Yazid. Another is to find a teacher to educate the child and teach him manners. A dog educate learns and matures in such a way that even the catch it brings in its mouth becomes halal a scholar is a dog that teach the illegitimate person to be halal, and if your son is ignorant, he makes him knowledge. Be kind to child when raising him. It is also necessary to reward him, but if these things: praising and rewarding go beyond the limits, it will only cause harm. Not exceeding the norm of both kind and punishment for a child serves for his good manners. One of the most important conditions of manners is to honor oneʼs father and mother. Performing the services of these two breeds equally even if you do as much of these services as possible, as little as possible. Sacrifice your soul to your father and worship your body at the feet of your mother. If you want to enjoy your two worlds, get the approval of these two breeds. Think of ones as the moon and the other as the sun to illuminate the day and night. Donʼt deviate even a little from your words and donʼt take a step outside of your wills. Let all your services be within the scope of decency and keep your posture like the letter " dob " in the word decency. Then make it obligatory for you to be faithful to your relatives, to be kind of them, to be in constant contact and to be kind to the people of that circle. Always keep in touch with all your relatives, serve the older ones and show mercy to the younger ones. Show respect also to those whom you consider to be your equals. 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