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Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus

him to listen and give her the understanding she needs and deserves. 
 
3. She Needs Respect and He Needs Appreciation 
 
When a man responds to a woman in a way that acknowledges and prioritizes her rights, 
wishes, and needs, she feels respected. When his behavior takes into consideration her 
thoughts and feelings, she is sure to feel respected. Concrete and physical expressions of 
respect, like flowers and remembering anniversaries, are essential to fulfill a woman's third 
primary love need. When she feels respected it is much easier for her to give her man the 
appreciation that he deserves. 
 
When a woman acknowledges having received personal benefit and value from a man's efforts 
and behavior, he feels appreciated. Appreciation is the natural reaction to being supported. 
When a man is appreciated he knows his effort is not wasted and is thus encouraged to Ove 
more. When a man is appreciated he is automatically empowered and motivated to respect his 
partner more. 
 
4. She Needs Devotion and He Needs Admiration 
 
When a man gives priority to a woman's needs and proudly commits himself to supporting and 
fulfilling her, her fourth primary love need is fulfilled. A woman thrives when she feels adored 
and special. A man fulfills her need to be loved in this way when he makes her feelings and 
needs more important than his other interests-like work, study, and recreation. When a woman 
feels that she is number one in his life then, quite easily, she admires him. 
 
Just as a woman needs to feel a man's devotion, a man has a primary need to feel a woman's 
admiration. To admire a man is to regard him with wonder, delight, and pleased approval. A 

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