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To ask a man for support:
1. Be direct.
2. Be brief.
3. Use "would you" or "will you" phrases.
It's best not to be too indirect, too lengthy, or to employ phrases such as "could you" or "can
you." Let's look at some examples.
Say
Don’t Say
"Would you empty the trash?"
"This kitchen is a mess; it really stinks. I can't fit anything else
into the trash bag. It needs to be emptied. Could you do it?"
(This is too long and uses could.)
"Would you help me move this
table?"
"I can't move this table. I need to rearrange it before our party
tonight. Could you please help?"
(This is too long and uses
could.)
"Would you please put this away for
me?"
"I can't put all of this away."
(This is an indirect message.)
"Would you bring the groceries in
from the car?"
"I have four bags of groceries left in the car. And I
need that food to make dinner. Could you bring them
in?"
(This is too long, indirect, and uses could.)
"Would you pick up a bottle of milk
on your way home?"
"You'll be going by the store. Lauren needs a bottle of milk. I
just can't go out again. I am so tired. Today was a bad day.
Could you get it?"
(This is too long, indirect, and uses could.)
"Would you pick up Julie from
school?"
"Julie needs a ride home and I can't pick her up. Do you have
time? Do you think you could pick her up?"
(This is too long,
indirect, and uses could.)
"Would
you take Zoey to the vet
today?"
"It's time for Zoey to get her shots. Would you like to take her
to the vet?"
(This is too indirect.)
"Would you take us out to dinner
tonight?"
"I am too tired to make dinner.
We haven't gone out in a
long time. Do you want to go out?"
(This is too lengthy and
indirect.)
"Would you zip me up?"
"I need your help. Could you zip me up?"
(This is indirect and
uses could.)
"Would you build a fire for us
tonight?"
"It's really cold. Are you going to build a fire?"
(This is too
indirect.)
"Would you take me to a movie this
week?"
"Do you want to go to a movie this week?" (This is too
indirect.)
"Would you help Lauren put on her
shoes?"
"Lauren still hasn't put on her shoes! We are late. I can't do
this all by myself! Could you help?"
(This is too long, indirect,
and uses could.)
"Would
you sit down with me now
or sometime tonight and talk about
our schedule?"
"I have no idea of what's going on. We haven't talked and I
need to know what you are doing."
(This is too long and
indirect.)
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