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23. 
Live a Life 
On being asked about the ups and downs of his career, movie star Kevin Costner responded with these words, 
“I’m living a life.” I found this reply to be profound. Rather than spending his days judging the events and 
experiences of his life as either good or bad, he adopted a neutral stance and simply decided to accept them for 
what they are: a natural part of the path he is on. 
We all travel different roads to our ultimate destinations. For some of us, the path is rockier than for 
others. But no one reaches the end without facing some form of adversity. So rather fight it, why not accept it as 
the way of life? Why not detach yourself from the outcomes and simply experience every circumstance that 
enters your life to the fullest? Feel the pain and savor the happiness. If you have never visited the valleys, the 
view from the mountaintop is not as breathtaking. Remember, there are no real failures in life, only results. 
There are no true tragedies, only lessons. And there really are no problems, only opportunities waiting to be 
recognized as solutions by the person of wisdom. 
24. 
Learn from a Good Movie 
I love going to the movies whenever I can. Often, I take my young daughter Bianca and my son Colby with me 
and, while munching on popcorn, we enjoy the latest animated film that is heating up the box office. We always 
walk out with smiles on our faces along with a whole new characters we can pretend to be in our daily play 
sessions. When I am on the road for a speaking tour, I still try to find a few hours at the end of the day to slip 
into a theater in whatever city I may be in and watch a good movie. I find that films not only relax me but they 
serve to transport me to a different world and inspire me to keep thinking about the endless possibilities life 
holds. I guess movies bring out the dreamer in me. 
Recently, I saw an Italian movie called Life Is Beautiful. Though it was subtitled, it kept me riveted fro 
nearly three hours and moved me like no film I have seen in quite some time. Much of the story centers on a 
loving father and his relationship with his young son. Early on, the two are inseparable and share many great 
times. Suddenly, one afternoon, the two are taken away from their home and placed on a train bound fro 
Auschwitz, the notorious Nazi concentration camp. The rest of the movie shows the incredible lengths the father 
goes to, not only to keep his son alive, but to actually keep him happy through their horrifying ordeal. Though 
the father ultimately sacrifices his own life at the end, Life Is Beautiful, is a powerful reminder that living is a 
gift and we must make the best of it, everyday of our lives. 
A good movie can restore your perspective, reconnect you to the things you value most and keep your 
enthusiastic about all the things in your life. And as Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Nothing great was ever 
achieved without enthusiasm.” 

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