Microsoft Word who will cry when u die doc

71. 
Stop Condemning  
Like the vice of complaining discussed earlier, it is easy to fall into the habit of condemning others, even those 
we love most. We criticize the way someone eats or the manner in which she speaks. We focus on the most 
minute details and find fault with the smallest of issues. But what we focus on grows. And if we keep focusing 
on a small weakness in someone, it will continue to grow in our minds until we perceive it to be a big problem 
in that person.  
 
Would you really want to live in a world where everyone looked, acted and thought exactly as you do? It 
would be a pretty boring place. To live a happier, more peaceful life, begin to see that the richness of our 
society comes from its diversity. What makes relationships, communities and countries great are not the things 
that we have in common but the differences that make us unique. Rather than looking for things to criticize in 
those around you, why not begin to respect the differences? 
 
Often, we perceive in others the weakness we most need to address within ourselves. Stop blaming and 
condemning. Accept complete responsibility for the way things are and resolve to work and changing yourself 
before seeking to change others. This is one of the truest measures of a person of strong character. As Erica 
Jong said, “Take your life into your hands and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.” 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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