Musashi's Dokkodo (The Way of Walking Alone)
Precept 4: Think lightly of yourself and deeply of
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Precept 4:
Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world “There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally.” ― Miguel Ruiz Monk: On the BBC Television show Time Team, a group of archeologists go around the United Kingdom digging up history. A short while ago I saw an episode about the Salisbury Cathedral, a place where I had recently visited during a trip to England. While I had no Idea that they had been there at that point, I walked where the cameramen had walked, where the archeologists had excavated. They were digging up a small personal chapel that Bishop Beauchamp had built adjacent to the larger cathedral. The little chapel, now gone, had been built by Beauchamp and he and a few of his close friends had been buried there. Even though I’d stood at the site I had no idea that the chapel had even existed until I saw the TV show, but here’s the really interesting part: While the archeologists were trying to locate the bishop’s friend’s bodies, they serendipitously uncovered a building foundation that predated not only the Bishop’s chapel but also the cathedral itself. Underneath that they discovered an older burial ground that no one suspected was there. To tease this out; I stood on a lawn, which once held a private chapel I didn’t know existed for a prominent Bishop I had never heard of. The private chapel was built on an older foundation from a project that was lost to time. Further, bones were discovered of people who were buried in the chapel that had no documentation. One might make a calculated guess of who they once were, but all records had been lost to antiquity. That’s nothing new. Let’s face it, history runs deep; and it has no need for your name. The world does not think of you, or me, or any of us truly. You may think of the world, but there is no reciprocity. In fact I’d go so far as to say that thinking deeply of yourself is a waste of time. Eventually, no matter how rich, famous, or important we are in life, we all move from being remembered to being forgotten in death. Thinking deeply of yourself not only wastes your time, it also makes your ego hard to be around. Everybody has an ego, of course, and that ego is needed to survive. If you didn’t have an ego you would die simply because you would take no action to sustain yourself. On the other end of the spectrum is the ego that enters the room twenty minutes before the person arrives. Neither of these egos is very successful over time. Putting your focus on the world, on the other hand, is a way to engage creation in a manner that is far more productive. We’ve all heard the phrase, “If it bleeds it leads.” When we listen to the nightly news, the focus is about manipulating our emotions the majority of the time. News agencies often have entertaining products because they focus on ratings, since that’s how they sell their advertising to fund their operations, but the news becomes valuable to us directly when it speaks to a true threat or opportunity, often a natural disaster, election, or local issue that we need to know about personally. The rest of the time, most of the time really, the news becomes little more than an ego stroke. With these new broadcasts emotions are elicited—simple, direct, easy-to-understand emotions that grab and keep a viewer’s attention. This combination allows for a quick validation of our emotions, and the emotions are further validated by jumping to swift conclusions about what we’ve seen and heard. We think, “That is bad,” or we reflect “That was really nice.” We have seen something, judged it, and are validated emotionally in the clarity of our choice. A simple, direct formula. The challenge in all this is that watching and coming to a conclusion based on an emotional response can, more often than not, result in failure. In sports it would be called “losing your head.” The emotions have taken over; they are in control which means that you are not. This is what happens when you think too much of yourself. Whether it is the news validating your emotional decision, or the (often) ill- conceived advice from a fellow sports enthusiast, or simply the day to day-to-day emotions that come with your family or occupation, losing your head is not a good thing. The root cause of most of this dysfunction comes from thinking too much of yourself while not taking the world seriously enough. The world you and I all too often live in is constructed around the wrong object, our ego. The caution that we should think lightly of ourselves is actually very close to what many religions teach in that we should place others’ needs ahead of our own. It’s a tried and true axiom that comes not only from religions, but also from a master swordsman. Interesting, huh? When you get such divergent origins of the same idea, it is worth review and study. Ultimately, you and I will not be remembered just like that anonymous skeleton buried under a chapel that no longer exists in an island country on a river delta. But, seeing the world deeply and your life lightly is a formula that brings clear insight and a unique beauty to the dance while we are here. That’s what this precept is about. Download 1.13 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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