Unlimited power

THERE'S ONE THAT WORKS MAGIC. 
 
There's an interesting dynamic that develops in relationships. In the very 
beginning of a relationship, the stage I call courting, we are very mobilized. We do 
all three-show, tell, and touch. As time goes on, most people get a little 
comfortable, and begin to communicate our feelings of love in just the modality we 
favor-the way we would like to receive it. Problems will arise in a relationship if 
you're no longer triggering your partner's love strategy-it will feel like some of the 
magic is missing ...and it is! 
 
Most of us think our map of the world is the way it is. We think, "I know 
what makes me feel loved." That must be what works for everyone else. We forget 
that the map is not the territory. It's only how we see the territory. 
 
Awareness is a very powerful tool. Now that you know how to elicit a love 
strategy, sit down with your partner and find out what makes him or her feel 
totally loved, and teach each other how to trigger your love strategies. The changes 
this understanding can make in the quality of your relationship are worth your 
investment in this book many times over!