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Find Your Six Degrees of Separation
In John Guare’s play Six Degrees of Separation, the character Ouisa has a
conversation with her daughter Tess in which she offers the following insight:
I read somewhere that everybody on this planet is separated by only six
people. Six degrees of separation. Between us and everybody else on this
planet. The president of the United States. A gondolier in Venice. Fill in the
names. I find that a) tremendously comforting that we’re so close and b)
like Chinese water torture that we’re so close. Because you have to find the
right six people to make the connection. It’s a profound thought how every
person is a new door, opening up into other worlds. Six degrees of
separation between me and everyone else on this planet. But to find the
right six people.
Ouisa was right. It is profound to think that you and I are separated from all
the other people living on this planet by at most six people. She was also right in
noting the real challenge: finding the right six people to connect you to the
person you need to know.
One of the things I have done in my own life is to create what I call a Hero
List, that is, a list of one hundred men and women I would most like to meet
before I die. Since the law of attraction says that we attract into our life that
which we focus on, this list is a tool I use to help me connect to the people I
most admire. On more than one occasion, the Six Degrees of Separation
principle has helped me find the right sequence of individuals who have led me
to the person I’ve wanted to meet. And I am continually astounded by how many
of the individuals on my list, which includes celebrities, business leaders, and
other professional speakers, seem to cross my path in an airport or to be
speaking at the same conference that I am or are having lunch at the same place
that I am. The very act of listing my heroes seems to create a heightened sense of
awareness that helps me spot them when they are close at hand.

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