unfriendliness and harshness. The one who does not have a thing
cannot give it.
So both parents have to follow the Sunnah of the Prophet (S.A.W)
in showing compassion towards children all the time. They should
set an example to their children in all
things and in doing so they
should follow the best example, which is that of the Prophet
(S.A.W). The children’s upbringing
should focus on love of the
Messenger (S.A.W). Al-‐Tabaraani narrated that the Messenger
(S.A.W) said: “Raise your children with three characteristics…
including love of your Prophet and love of his family…”
The Prophet’s teaching: Treating children
fairly
It was narrated from al-‐Nu‘maan ibn Basheer (R.A)
that his father
brought him to the Messenger of Allaah (S.A.W) and said: I have
given my son a slave of mine. The Messenger of Allaah (S.A.W)
said: “Have you given a similar gift to all your children?” He said:
No. He said: “Then take (your gift) back…”
According to another report, the Messenger of Allaah (S.A.W)
said: “Have you done this for all of your children?” He said: No.
He said: “Fear Allah and treat your children fairly.”
So my father
took back his gift.
According to another report, the Prophet (S.A.W) said: “Do not
ask me to be a witness then, for
I will not be a witness to
unfairness.”
The Prophet’s joking with children
The Prophet (S.A.W) used to joke with children and make them
laugh, and he would laugh with them.
It was narrated that he
would stick his tongue out to make al-‐Hasan laugh, and he would
put water in his mouth and splash it onto al-‐Hasan’s face, and the
boy would laugh.
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