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people want. Show your craft,
practice your craft, and the right
people will eventually find you.” [14]
And once you’ve met someone, how do you determine if you
can trust someone? What signals do you pay attention to?
If someone is talking a lot about how honest they are, they’re
probably dishonest. That is just a little telltale indicator I’ve
learned. When someone spends too much time talking about
their own values or they’re talking themselves up, they’re cov-
ering for something. [4]
Sharks eat well but live a life surrounded by sharks.
I have great people in my life
who are extremely successful,
very desirable (like everybody wants to be their friend), very
smart. Yet, I’ve seen them do one or two things slightly not
great to other people. The first time, I’ll say, “Hey, I don’t think
you should do this to that other person. Not because you won’t
get away with it. You will get away with it, but because it will
hurt you in the end.”
Not
in some cosmic, karma kind of way, but I believe deep
down we all know who we are. You cannot hide anything from
yourself. Your own failures
are written within your psyche, and
they are obvious to you. If you have too many of these moral
shortcomings, you will not respect yourself. The worst out-
come in this world is not having self-esteem. If you don’t love
yourself, who will?
I think you just have to be very careful about doing things you
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are fundamentally not going to be proud of, because they will
damage you. The first
time someone acts this way, I will warn
them. By the way, nobody changes. Then I just distance myself
from them. I cut them out of my life. I just have this saying
inside my head: “The
closer you want to get to me, the better
your values have to be.” [4]
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