The seven habits of highly effective people

Habit 6:  Synergize TM 
 
Principles of Creative Cooperation 
 
 
 

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THE SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE                                                                        Brought to you by FlyHeart 
      I take as my guide the hope of a saint 
      in crucial things, unity -- 
      in important things, diversity -- 
   in all things, generosity 
      -- Inaugural Address of President George Bus 
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      When Sir Winston Churchill was called to head up the war effort for Great Britain, he remarked that 
all his life had prepared him for this hour.  In a similar sense, the exercise of all of the other habits 
prepares us for the habit of synergy. 
   When properly understood, synergy is the highest activity in all life -- the true test and 
manifestation of all the other habits put together. 
   The highest forms of synergy focus the four unique human endowments, the motive of win-win, 
and the skills of empathic communication on the toughest challenges we face in life.    What results is 
almost miraculous.    We create new alternatives -- something that wasn't there before. 
   Synergy is the essence of Principle-Centered Leadership.  It is the essence of principle-centered 
parenting.    It catalyzes, unifies, and unleashes the greatest powers within people.    All the habits we 
have covered prepare us to create the miracle of synergy. 
      What is synergy? Simply defined, it means that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.    It 
means that the relationship which the parts have to each other is a part in and of itself.    It is not only a 
part, but the most catalytic, the most empowering, the most unifying, and the most exciting part. 
      The creative process is also the most terrifying part because you don't know exactly what's going to 
happen or where it is going to lead.    You don't know what new dangers and challenges you'll find.    It 
takes an enormous amount of internal security to begin with the spirit of adventure, the spirit of 
discovery, the spirit of creativity.  Without doubt, you have to leave the comfort zone of base camp 
and confront an entirely new and unknown wilderness.    You become a trailblazer, a pathfinder.    You 
open new possibilities, new territories, new continents, so that others can follow. 
      Synergy is everywhere in nature.    If you plant two plants close together, the roots commingle and 
improve the quality of the soil so that both plants will grow better than if they were separated.    If you 
put two pieces of wood together, they will hold much more than the total of the weight held by each 
separately.    The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.    One plus one equals three or more. 
      The challenge is to apply the principles of creative cooperation, which we learn from nature, in our 
social interactions.    Family life provides many opportunities to observe synergy and to practice it. 
      The very way that man and a woman bring a child into the world is synergistic.    The essence of 
synergy is to value differences -- to respect them, to build on strengths, to compensate for weaknesses. 
      We obviously value the physical differences between men and women, husbands and wives.    But 
what about the social, mental, and emotional differences? Could these differences not also be sources of 
creating new exciting forms of life -- creating an environment that is truly fulfilling for each person, that 
nurtures the self-esteem and self-worth to each, that creates opportunities for each to mature into 
independence and then gradually into interdependence? Could synergy not create a new script for the 
next generation -- one that is more geared to service and contribution, and is less protective, less 
adversarial, less selfish; one that is more open, more giving, and is less defensive, protective, and 
political; one that is more loving, more caring, and is less possessive and judgmental?