The seven habits of highly effective people

Application Suggestions 
 
   1.  For a full day, listen to your language and to the language of the people around you.  How 
often do you use and hear reactive phrases such as "If only," "I can't," or "I have to" 
   2.  Identify an experience you might encounter in the near future where, based on past experience, 
you would probably behave reactively.    Review the situation in the context of your Circle of Influence.   
How could you respond proactively? Take several moments and create the experience vividly in your 
mind, picturing yourself responding in a proactive manner.  Remind yourself of the gap between 
stimulus and response.    Make a commitment to yourself to exercise your freedom to choose. 
      3.    Select a problem from your work or personal life that is frustrating to you.    Determine whether 
it is a direct, indirect, or no control problem.  Identify the first step you can take in your Circle of 
Influence to solve it and then take that step. 
   4.  Try the 30-day test of proactivity.  Be aware of the change in your Circle of Influence. 
 
 
 

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THE SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE                                                                        Brought to you by FlyHeart