Girl Code: Unlocking the Secrets to Success, Sanity, and Happiness for the Female Entrepreneur

What is inspiring you right now?
I am beyond inspired by the current wave of woman’s empowerment and
female entrepreneurs who are paving their own way and often achieving
success in pursuit of their passion projects. Woman are redefining or
breaking the rules and creating their own space, defining their boundaries,
and expanding their borders. I am also encouraged by positive messaging
and people actively seeking to better themselves mentally, emotionally and
physically. There is a shift in consciousness and the overall spirit. It’s
amazing to see people building careers out of things that inspire and it’s
amazing to see people’s desire for, and interest in, aspirational things and
what uplifts and encourages growth. I feel fortunate to have met so many
amazing women on this journey who support and empower and feed my
soul. It inspires me everyday and reminds me to continue to dream big and
not stop believing (as the Journey song plays in the background).
How do you handle competition?
Competition, whether current or that which may materialize in the future, is
healthy. It keeps us hungry and relevant and reminds us that we can’t rest
on our laurels or our past successes. I believe a little competition forces
creativity and inspires me to figure out how we can do more for less.
What is one piece of advice you have for a female entrepreneur just
starting out?
Don’t discount your abilities. Act confident even if you are shaking in your
shoes. Have the audacity to believe and never let reality get in the way of
your imagination. As I’ve gotten older, and I hope wiser, I’ve gained the
perspective, maturity and confidence to know that I can succeed at anything
I try. Sadly, too many of us give up just before we reach success or we let

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fear rule us. Know that how you handle yourself in adversity is what really
defines you as an entrepreneur. Be kind to yourself. Believe in yourself.
Learn to diffuse ‘no.’ And never, ever let anyone dull your sparkle.
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GIRL CODE: Extra Credit
Think about a situation in your life or your business that challenged you.
Perhaps it was a difficult client, a stressful day, or an idea that didn’t
execute as planned. What can you learn from that situation? How can it
help you grow?

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GIRL CODE: Notes
MY BIGGEST TAKEAWAY FROM THIS CHAPTER:

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CHAPTER EIGHT
Don’t Hate Her Because She’s Successful
“You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own
blessings.”
– Elizabeth Gilbert
Want to know the quickest way to give up on all your dreams? Spend
your time being jealous.
Jealousy is an ugly emotion that has a tendency to rear her ugly head
quite often. And it’s no wonder! As I mentioned earlier, we spend so much
of our time on social media – especially as entrepreneurs – which sets the
stage for comparison, self-criticism, and self-doubt. We are constantly
watching other people’s lives unfold, and no matter how much we are proud
of our own success, it’s hard not to compare.
But being envious of someone else isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It’s a
sign that we want something more for ourselves. The problem occurs when
we allow jealousy to fill us with negativity, paralyze us, and stifle our own
success. When we count someone else’s blessings instead of our own. In
this chapter I’m going to teach you some very real mindset shifts to turn
your jealousy into inspiration. If she can have it, you can too, and I’m going
to show you how.