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Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus

not realize that Bill was taking personally all her feelings of frustration and disappointment. 
Bill was about to explode and make her wrong for being so upset. 
 
Instead of dumping his defensive feelings on her and ruining their evening, he wisely decided 
to take ten minutes and write a Love Letter. When he finished writing, he came back more 
loving and gave his wife a hug, saying, "I am sorry you didn't get your mail. I wish I had gotten 
that message. Do you still love me anyway?" Jean responded with a lot of love and 
appreciation, and they had a wonderful evening instead of a cold war. 
 
This is Bill's Love Letter: 
 
 
Dear Jean, 


130 
 
1. Anger.. I hate when you get so upset. I hate when you blame me. I am angry that you are so 
unhappy. I am angry that you are not happy to see me. It feels like nothing I do is ever enough. 
I want you to appreciate me and be happy to see me. 
2. Sad.. I am sad that you are so frustrated and disappointed. I am sad that you are not happy 
with me. I want you to be happy. I am sad that work is always getting in the way of our love 
life. I am sad that you don't appreciate all the wonderful things we have in our lives. I am sad I 
didn't come home with the mall you needed. 
 
3. Fear.. I am afraid I can't make you happy. I am afraid you will be unhappy all evening. I am 
afraid to be open with you or be close to you. I am afraid of needing your love. I am afraid I am 
not good enough. I am afraid you will hold this against me. 
 
4. Regret.. I am sorry that I didn't bring home the mall. I am sorry you are so unhappy. I am 

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