Frederick Douglas Harper
58
DEAR LOVE
nd it was said:
“Dear love,
Please know I will not
Call
you or call upon you again;
I want nothing and need nothing
From you; and what I shared
With you was unappreciated
But
with no regret on my part;
Please know you can rest in
The privacy of my absence,
And go both we our separate ways
In search of our own happiness.”
Reprinted: Harper’s
Romantica: On Peace and Romance, 1988.
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LOVE POEMS of Frederick Douglas Harper
59
TO HAVE
o have is to miss,
To know is to miss,
To experience the ecstasy of
Sensuality is to
suffer the pain
Of absence.
Love comes and love goes,
Choosing carefully in couplets its
Beneficiaries and victims of joy
And pain, of happiness and shame.
But, such
is the beauty of things
That come and go; of flowers,
Stars, and theatre lights.
Love comes and love goes;
To have is to hold it precious.
Reprinted: Harper’s
Poems on Love and Life, 1985.
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Frederick Douglas Harper
60
LOVE WHAT YOU HAVE
If you can,
Love what you have;
For
once lost, you may
Not be able to love it again.
Love what you have;
For once lost, you may
Not be able to love it the same.
Love what you have;
For once lost, you may
Not be able to love another—
You may not be able to love
At all.
Reprinted: Harper’s
Poems on Love and Life, 1985.