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LIVING WITH GRANDPARENTS:GOOD OR BAD?


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LIVING WITH GRANDPARENTS:GOOD OR BAD?
You’ll have more privacy. The good thing about living with your grandparents is that you’ll have more freedom and privacy than staying at home. Your own room is waiting for you there, and nobody will bother you when doing what you like. As long as you do something positive for the family, they won’t care about what time do you get back home or what time do you go out to hang out with friends.You get more independence. This is also related to the previous point because once they let you alone, they also give you more freedom and independence on what do you want to do.
Living with your grandparents may sound like a dream come true for some kids who have to travel long distances to school or have trouble getting along with their parents.
There are some pros and cons, however, that you should consider before moving in with your grandparents.
Cons of living with your grandparents
If you don’t get along well with them, living with them can be a nightmare. You might feel like you’re a guest in their home rather than being part of the family, and permissiveness could lead you down the wrong path. They may not be able to give you advice about certain issues because of their age, and they might expect too much from you and over-protect you.
You may find it hard to adjust to the lifestyle – eating habits, sleeping habits, etc. You may miss your parents and friends back home.
The pros and cons of a grandparent living with the family, yes there are two sides to every coin. There are some very good points for the kids as well as the grandparent, but equally bad ones too.
In this post, I’m going to explore the good, the bad and the ugly of a grandparent living with the family from my personal experience. So grab your favorite drink and let’s get to it!
When I say a grandparent living with the family, I’m speaking of ‘the family’ meaning a child and grandchild(ren), with or without the spouse of the child of the grandparent. Whew! Perhaps that was a long, maybe even a run-on sentence, lol but I wanted to clarify my meaning.
So, as I mentioned previously this post is based off my personal experience. Almost 12 years ago now, due to unforeseen circumstances my youngest daughter and her first husband unfortunately needed to move in with me. It was necessity due to my health and some of their own circumstances as well.
These new living arrangements came about during the last trimester of my daughter’s first pregnancy. Her pregnancy was a high-risk pregnancy due to her being diabetic.
Although this was not the best situation or arrangements due to mine or her health issues, we were making the best of it all.
Becoming A Grandparent Living with The Family
In the beginning it took a lot of adjusting to the new arrangements. My home is a two bedroom, rather small house, which was fine at the start.
However, preparing for the new arrival began taking up a lot of space, but we managed. I was forced to retire early from my nursing career and was put on disability due to health at this point. Soon afterwards my daughter was put on bed rest until the end of her pregnancy.
Two women with health concerns, mother and daughter, now living together again. We were helping each other and excitedly anticipating her first child, and my first grandchild.
Fortunately, my son-in-law and I got along great. James was very caring and supportive not only of his wife with her health concerns and pregnancy, but also of my health and needs of assistance as well.
Things were going well. I was excited to welcome my first grandchild. It was just a few weeks before my 48th birthday. Fairly young to become a grandmother, but I was ecstatic to be Granny!! We knew it was to be a boy, and they were naming him after my Grandfather and my Father.Because my daughter was diabetic she couldn’t be allowed to go full term, so she was scheduled to be induced two weeks early. Samuel Alvin was scheduled to arrive on September 14th.

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