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71. 
Stop Condemning  
Like the vice of complaining discussed earlier, it is easy to fall into the habit of condemning others, even those 
we love most. We criticize the way someone eats or the manner in which she speaks. We focus on the most 
minute details and find fault with the smallest of issues. But what we focus on grows. And if we keep focusing 
on a small weakness in someone, it will continue to grow in our minds until we perceive it to be a big problem 
in that person.
Would you really want to live in a world where everyone looked, acted and thought exactly as you do? It 
would be a pretty boring place. To live a happier, more peaceful life, begin to see that the richness of our 
society comes from its diversity. What makes relationships, communities and countries great are not the things 
that we have in common but the differences that make us unique. Rather than looking for things to criticize in 
those around you, why not begin to respect the differences? 
Often, we perceive in others the weakness we most need to address within ourselves. Stop blaming and 
condemning. Accept complete responsibility for the way things are and resolve to work and changing yourself 
before seeking to change others. This is one of the truest measures of a person of strong character. As Erica 
Jong said, “Take your life into your hands and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.” 

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72. 
See Your Day as Your Life  
“The days come and go like muffled and veiled figures sent from a distant, friendly party, but they say nothing, 
and if we do not use the gifts they bring, they carry them as silently away,” observed Emerson. As you live your 
days, so you will live your life. It is easy to get caught up in the trap of thinking that this day does not matter 
much given all the days that lie ahead of you. But a great life is nothing more than a series of great, well – lived 
days strung together like a beautiful necklace of pearls. Every day counts and contributes to the quality of the 
end result. The past is gone, the future is but a figment, so this day is really all you can own. Invest it wisely. 
Your life is not a dress rehearsal. Lost opportunities rarely come again. Today, vow to increase your 
passion for living and multiply the commitment you will bring to each of the days that will follow this one. 
Many people think that it takes months and years to change your life. Respectfully, I disagree. You change your 
life the second you make a decision from the depths of your heart to be a better, more dedicated human being. 
What takes the months and years are the efforts you must apply to maintain that decision. And the best life 
change decision you will ever make is the one to live every moment of your days to the fullest. As golf legend 
Ben Hogan said, “As you walk down the fairway of life, you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one 
round.” 

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