Socio-psychological features of the conflict between spouses of Uzbek families

Table 2
Causing conflicts in marital relationships in the family severity of factors
(in percent) q=300

№	Factors	Strong	Average	Weak	it doesn't happen
1.	Character incompatibility	14	18	15	53
2.	Attitude towards raising children	8	12	35	45
3.	Disadvantages of the economic proposal	22	16	14	48
4.	Inability to rationally manage the family budget	14	17	12	57
5.	Because of the division of household duties	7	8	25	60
6.	Parent Involvement	8	14	16	62
7.	Interference by others	2	10	20	68
8.	Jealousy and distrust	23	15	10	62
9.	Lack of love and affection	6	19	11	64
10.	Household chores are sloppy and without incident	9	6	37	48
11.	Attitude towards parents and relatives	12	10	18	60
12.	Childlessness	4	2	-	94
13.	Uncomfortable living conditions	14	16	6	64
14.	Incompatibility of worldview and professions	16	4	38	42
15.	disagreement	6	17	19	58
16.	They don't work for the family	3	3	44	50
17.	Drinking, smoking and other vices	11	5	12	72
18.	Failure to comply with the necessary rules in sexual relations	7	16	11	66
19.	Temporary bad moods	-	5	55	40
20.	Other commonplace reasons	-	8	24	68

As can be seen from the table, jealousy and distrust between spouses are noted by 23% of the respondents, lack of economic support - 22%, incompatibility of worldview and profession - 16%, incompatibility of characters - 14%, inability to manage one's household - 14%. the family budget is rational and efficient, 14% due to the inconvenience of living conditions, 12% due to inadequate attitude towards parents and relatives, 11% due to drunkenness, smoking and other defects, 9% due to the fact that housework sometimes out of order, sloppy and uneven, causing conflicts in interpersonal relationships in the family, they recognize that this has a strong influence on the output.

The conflict of interpersonal relationships in the family is due to the intervention of parents in the relationship of spouses (8%), attitudes towards raising children (8%), separation of household chores (7%), non-observance of the necessary rules in sexual relations (7%), lack of love and affection, non-existence (6%), lack of communication, disagreements (6%) are also sometimes strong factors in family conflicts. Due to the interference of other people in family relations (2%), the inability of family members to work in an area corresponding to their interests (3%), and childlessness (4%), there are practically no strong conflicts in them.
First of all, the new member of the family is the daughter-in-law (wife) with the father-in-law, mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, son-in-law, it is appropriate to comment on the relationship. According to the results of our surveys, the relationship of brides with their father-in-law is very good in 17% of families, 53% is good, 17.3% is satisfactory, 10% is almost bad, and 2.7% noted that it is bad. In families, the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is good and very good, although the figure is 70%, but in them there are still cold-conflict relations between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law (almost bad 10%, bad 2.7%) still remain in a certain degree negatively affects the stability of relationships.
Research shows that the relationship with the mother-in-law is the most important part of family relationships. Because of the daughter-in-law's relationship, although 73% are very good, but almost bad relationship between them, so far 20% of families live family life is a dangerous factor for its stability. Often this is due to the character, worldview and interests of the mother-in-law. Incompatibility, attitude to raising children, inability to rationally manage the family budget, jealousy and distrust, it was noted that household affairs are not organized and mixed, attitude towards parents or relatives, uncomfortable living conditions, inability to speak and disagreements.
It is known that any conflict in the family can damage the reputation of family members. After the conflict, interpersonal relationships in the family also change dramatically, and an unhealthy atmosphere reigns in the family community. Negative situations as a result of the conflict make certain changes in feelings, actions, thinking and even in the character of a person. These changes manifest themselves in the behavior of the individual, spread to other situations in which the subject participates, and begin to occupy broad areas of relationships. Therefore, family members need the ability to organize events to prevent conflicts and competently resolve them when they arise. In this case, the husband and wife correctly understand and respect each other, try to jointly resolve family issues, which makes it possible to peacefully resolve any conflicts, disagreements and problems that arise in the family.
Having studied the socio-psychological characteristics of conflicts between spouses of Uzbek families, we can make the following practical proposals for their effective resolution:
1) it is recommended to increase the experience and duration of dates before marriage;
2) to provide school psychologists, teachers and educators, social activists with conversations about the negative consequences of the conflict when working with parents;
3) it is advisable to promote psychological knowledge on issues of communication, personality, sexuality, the psychology of conflicts, organize conversations through the media about the mental health of the child;
4) it is very important to prepare young people for family life in schools, educational institutions, marital homes, not only for young people, but also for their parents;
5) to introduce a special course "Psychology of family life" in higher educational institutions, it is desirable to have in this course a special section called the psychology of conflict, and in this section the etiology, factors, causes, forms of manifestation, Types, directions, consequences and methods of preventing conflicts are indicated by the appropriate way.


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