The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM)

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add as much value to your life as I possibly can.
Let’s Keep Helping Others
May I ask you a quick favor?
If this book has added value to your life, if you feel like you’re better off
after reading it, and you see that The Miracle Morning can be a new
beginning for you to take any—or every—area of your life to the next level,
I’m hoping you’ll do something for someone you love:
Give this book to them. Let them borrow your copy. Ask them to read it.
Or better yet, get them their own copy, maybe as a birthday or Christmas gift.
Come to think of it—what better book to give someone for Christmas than the
only book that makes every morning feel like Christmas?!
Or it could be for no special occasion at all, other than to say, “Hey, I
love and appreciate you, and I want to help you live your best life. Read
this.”
If you believe, as I do, that being a great friend or family member is
about helping your friends and loved ones to become the best versions of
themselves, I encourage you to share this book with them.
Please spread the word.
Thank you so much.
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— AN ESSENTIAL BONUS —
Everybody needs feedback, and it’s a heck
of a lot cheaper than paying a trainer.
—DOUG LOWENSTEIN
Ask for feedback from people with diverse backgrounds.
Each one will tell you one useful thing.
—STEVE JOBS
I
t was 2 o’clock in the morning. I couldn’t sleep. Still renting a room
from Matt, I was sitting at my cheap imitation-pine desk, crammed into my
12’ x 12’ living space. This sucked. Something had to change. Or maybe I
needed to change.
Staring at my laptop and feeling frustrated with my life, I suddenly got
inspired. I don’t remember exactly what prompted it, but I opened up a new
email and started adding a very diverse group of people to the To: field.
Close friends, family, co-workers, former bosses, acquaintances, the girl I was
dating, and even—believe it or not—my ex-girlfriends. You name it, I was
ready to make some radical changes in my life. I was ready for a quantum
leap in my potential, and I felt the only way for me to get an accurate
assessment of who I was, how I was showing up in my life, and where I
needed to improve was to solicit honest feedback from the people who knew
me best.
I stopped when I got to 23 email addresses, because, well, I am a huge
fan of Michael Jordan and have a mild obsession with the number 23. I began
to compose an email to these people, who each knew me in different
capacities and to varying degrees, explaining that I wanted to grow
personally, to be a better friend, son, brother, and colleague, and that the only
thing to do was to get feedback from people who could see things about me
that I couldn’t see about myself. I asked if they would please take a few
minutes to reply, at their earliest convenience, sharing what they believed
were the three biggest areas that I needed to improve. I asked that they be
brutally honest, and assured them that they would not hurt my feelings. In
fact, the only thing that would hurt my feelings was for them to hold back,

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because doing so would only limit my growth.

I’d be lying if I didn’t admit that this was the most nerve-racking email
I’ve ever composed. I almost chickened out. I considered deleting it, and just
going to bed. Thank God I didn’t. No, I took a deep breath, and I clicked
send. Then, I went to bed, fell asleep, and awaited their responses.
Six hours later, I woke up. Wait, did I really send that email at 2 o’clock
in the morning, or was that just a dream? I logged into my email. Nope, not a
dream. I definitely sent it. And I already had two replies. One was from Mom,
and the other was from J. Brad Britton, a well-respected Region Manager at
the 200 million dollar company I worked for. Oh boy, here goes… I paused
for a second and reminded myself that the purpose of this exercise was for me
to grow and improve, so no matter what anyone said in his or her email, I was
going to keep an open mind and not get offended. Easier said than done.
I opened Mom’s email first. Hey son, I got your email. (Really Mom? I
had no idea that you got it.) Well, you know I think you’re perfect! But if I
must give you some constructive feedback, it’s that you should call your
mother more often! I know you’re busy, but it would be nice to hear from you
every once in a while. Anyway, I love you! Come visit soon… Love, Mom. I
opened up a blank document on my computer and titled it “Constructive
Feedback and My New Commitments.” #1. Call Mom at least once a week.
Then I opened the email from my Region Manager, J. Brad Britton. J.
Brad is someone I admired and had learned a great deal from. Not to mention,
he was one of the most positive people I knew. Although we only saw each
other a few times throughout the year at conferences and on company trips, he
knew me well, at least in a professional capacity. My Pal Hal! I love your
email. However, I am only willing to give you the 3 pieces of “constructive”
feedback you have requested if you let me follow it up with 3 things I like
about you. Deal? Okay, here goes…

J. Brad proceeded to enlighten me to a few of my professional and social
“blind spots,” all of which caught me by surprise. To be honest, my feelings
did get a bit hurt. I felt a little defensive. That’s not true. I’m not really like
that. He obviously doesn’t know me as well as I thought he did. Then, it
occurred to me that it didn’t matter how accurate each of his criticisms were,
because that was how I was showing up for him—and probably many others.
It was important to me not just that I knew who I really was, but that I was
living in alignment with my values, and congruent in all of my relationships.

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Email responses continued to pour in over the next few days. By the end
of the week, 17 of the 23 recipients had replied with their thoughtful and
(mostly) constructive criticisms. I had added a lot to my “Constructive
Feedback and My New Commitments” document since making a note of my
mom’s request for more frequent contact. So, what were the results?
Let’s just say that I gained more self-awareness and grew more in a week
from reading those responses than I had grown in the previous 5 years
combined—and possibly my entire life. It was incredible. It wasn’t easy to
put myself in such a vulnerable position and look at all of my flaws—but it
was life-changing. It was career-advancing. It was relationship-improving.
And it was all a result of mustering up enough courage to send what is
probably the most important email that I have ever sent: The Email That Will
Change Your Life.
Before I give you The Email That Will Change Your Life below, word-
for-word—so you can copy, edit, and send it to your circle of influence—I’d
like to take a moment to share some positive feedback with you from one of
my coaching clients. She sent this to me after she had sent The Email That
Will Change Your Life to her circle of influence: