The Mountain Is You
part of spiritual and metaphysical practices for centuries
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The Mountain is You
part of spiritual and metaphysical practices for centuries and has just recently become more mainstream with the development of popular psychology. Albert Camus once said: “In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer.” That sums up the entirety of what inner peace really is: the understanding that no matter what is happening around you, there is a place of total knowing and calmness with- in you. Not only are you capable of returning to that place when you need to, but it’s possible to live your entire life from there. The challenge is learning how to connect with it in the first place and rewire how you respond to your mind, which is always jumping from one worst-case scenario to the next. You know when people reference knowing something “deep down?” They say things like: “I’m worried, but deep down, I know it’s going to be okay.” Or, “I’m angry at him, but deep down, I know he loves me.” What do you think they are referencing? Where is deep down? They’re talking about the place within them that has an infinite wisdom, a better understanding, and a more insightful perspective of what’s going on. It isn’t shaken by the stressors or fears that the mind wants to offer. 213 THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU 212 BRIANNA WIEST So much of the process of finding inner peace is being able to get to that “deep down” place where you know and feel that ultimately everything will be okay. There’s another metaphor in meditation in which calm- ness is compared to steadying a lake or a large body of water. Your thoughts and actions are like stones in the water: They create a ripple effect. The point of medita- tion is to make yourself quiet enough so that the water comes back to its natural stillness. You don’t have to force the water to be still. It does it on its own when you stop interrupting it. The same goes for finding inner peace. It’s not so much something you have to create as it is something you have to return to. C R E AT I N G A L I G N E D G O A L S One of the most important parts of discovering your inner peace is that you trade in your desire for “happiness.” Unfortunately, happiness is fickle. It can lead you to being attached to certain achievements, belongings, or specific circumstances. It can lead you to become dependent on other people’s opinions or life unfolding in a particular way. When your goal is happiness, you will always find just behind it a lingering sense of unhappiness—that’s how balance and duality works. Inner peace, however? 213 THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU 212 BRIANNA WIEST That’s the state in between the scales. When it’s your goal, there’s no way to lose. This is difficult for most people, and often, people will continue to create stress, problems, and drama for them- selves because their egos are still very much attached to thinking they need something external to make them feel good. This is the quintessential sign of someone who has not yet found their inner peace: They are searching, often frantically, for a sense of satisfaction, belonging, or wor- thiness outside of themselves. So really, it’s not that happiness isn’t a virtuous thing to which you should aspire, or that happiness isn’t something you’re ever allowed to feel. The reality is that inner peace is the true happiness, and everything else is just a false means of trying to convince yourself that you are “okay.” Think about it this way: What do you typically imagine will bring you happiness? Money, a relationship, a pro- motion? What happens when you achieve those things? Consistently, throughout all of humankind, the answer is the same: You return to your baseline. This is because this kind of happiness is not real. It is only being completely at peace with whenever you are in any given day that you will find a genuine sense of wonder, presence, and joy. Download 1.1 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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