The Mountain Is You
HOW DO I OVERCOME ADJUSTMENT SHOCK?
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The Mountain is You
HOW DO I OVERCOME ADJUSTMENT SHOCK?
When something positive happens in your life, you are going to have to adjust your mindset about other things to create alignment and a new, more accurate and sus- tainable perspective. 121 THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU 120 BRIANNA WIEST If you have anxiety about having more money, you will need to learn how to manage it better. If you have anxiety about relationships, you will need to learn to relate to oth- ers like you never have before. Your big life change is going to force you to level up in every way imaginable, and the way to overcome the ini- tial fear of stepping into the unknown is to familiarize yourself with it, to make it a part of you, one that you are certain you are prepared for—and that you deserve. P S Y C H I C T H I N K I N G I S N ’ T W I S D O M When we talk about “psychic thinking,” we are not refer- ring to the palm-reading, neon-sign-advertised occultist professionals you can hire to evaluate your energy and predict your future. Psychic thinking is far more insidious than that. Psychic thinking is assuming you know what somebody else is thinking or what they intend to do. It is assum- ing that the least likely outcome is the most viable out- come, because you feel it most strongly. It is believing that you have missed out on “another life,” a path you did not choose, that you were possibly more meant for. It is believing that the person with whom you have the most electric connection is your most ideal life partner. 121 THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU 120 BRIANNA WIEST Of course, the way other people see us is dynamic. Their thoughts, feelings, and intentions are largely if not entirely unknown to us. The least likely outcome is just that: the least likely outcome. There is no such thing as the path we could have taken, only a projection of our needs and desires onto another fantastical idea of what our lives might be. Electric connection is not soulmateship; love and compatibility are not the same thing. Psychic thinking detaches us from reality. In place of logic, we put emotions, ones that are often incorrect, unreliable, and wholly biased toward what we want to believe. Beyond being inconveniencing, psychic thinking is ab- solutely terrible for your mental health. Psychic thinking breeds anxiety and depression. It’s not just that something scares or upsets us; it’s that we believe that the thought must not only be real, but predictive of future events. In- stead of feeling like we are having a down day, psychic thinking makes us assume we are having a terrible life. We heard “trust yourself ” and then began to liken our- selves to oracles, that when a particularly triggering thought or feeling passes through us, it must indicate something more to come. Indeed, psychic thinking as a whole has begun taking on an entirely new light because of the popularity of pop psy- chology, dating back to the 50s and 60s. Trust yourself, the gurus tell you. Deep down, you know the truth. 123 THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU 122 BRIANNA WIEST This is valid. Your intestines are literally connected to the stem of your brain; the bacteria in your stomach re- spond to subconscious intelligent awareness faster than your mind can. This is why your “gut” is indeed correct on instinct. But when this advice is given to people who can- not differentiate a gut feeling from fear or from a passing thought that has no bearing on reality or their lives as a whole, it becomes a dangerous practice in which they be- come completely stuck and limited because they assume their random feelings are all real—and then not only real, but a prediction for what’s to come. Psychic thinking is nothing more than a series of cognitive biases, the most prominent of which are the following: Download 1.1 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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