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BY ANTHONY ROBBINS
Copyright © 1991 by Robbins Research International. AM rights reserved. Reproduction in any form without the express written convent of Robbins Research International is prohibited.
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Few of us spend much time thinking
about how to frame our
communications with ourselves. Something happens to us. We form an internal
representation of the experience. And we figure that's what we have to live with.
Think how crazy that is. It's
like turning on the ignition, starting up your car, and
then seeing where it decides to go. You need to
start framing and reframing
experiences in a way that makes them work for you.
Reframing can be used to eliminate negative feeling about nearly anything.
A phobia, for example, is often rooted
at a deep kinesthetic level, so you need to
provide more distance from it in order to do an effective reframe.
The way to deal with people who are phobic is to disassociate them from
their representations several times. We call this double disassociation. For
example, if you
have a phobia about something, do the exercise on the tape that
will take you step by step through a process that can free
you of fears and phobias
in a matter of minutes.
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