UNLIMITED
POWER
BY ANTHONY ROBBINS
Copyright © 1991 by Robbins Research International. AM rights reserved. Reproduction in any form without the express written convent of Robbins Research International is prohibited.
P.135
Take a moment to reframe these situations:
1.
My boss yells at me all the time.
2.
I had to pay $4,000 more in income tax this year than last year.
3.
We have little or no extra money to buy Christmas presents this year.
4.
Every time I
begin to succeed in a big way, I sabotage my success.
Here are some possible reframes.
la.
It's great he cares enough to tell you how he feels. He could have just fired
you.
2a. That's great. You must have made a lot more money this year than last year.
3a. Great! Then you can become much more ingenious
and make something
people will never forget instead of buying run-of-the-mill gifts. Your gifts will
be personal.
4a. It's great that you're so aware of what your pattern has been in the past.
Now you can figure out what triggered it and change it forever!
Most
reframing is done for us, not by us. Someone else changes the frame
for us and we react to it.
What is advertising, after all,
but a huge industry with
the sole purpose of framing and reframing mass perceptions? Do you really think
there is anything particularly macho about a specific brand
of beer or particularly
sexy about a particular cigarette?
Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: