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PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP?" The person might answer, "The feelings of 
support." Then you might ask, "What's important about support?" S/he might 
respond, "It shows that someone loves me." You might ask, "What's important 
about someone loving you?" S/he might answer, "It creates feelings of joy for me." 
 
Then, to have a clear understanding of someone's hierarchy of values, all 
you need to do is take this list of words ("support". "love", "joy") and compare 
them. Ask, "Which is more important to you? Being supported or feeling joy?" If 
the answer is, "Feeling joy," then obviously it is higher in the hierarchy of values. 
Next you would ask, "Which is more important to you, feeling joy or being loved?" 
etc . 
 
I've listed some values that are important to me in relationships as a guide 
for you to practice with. (You don't have to use this list you may have additional 
ones, or totally different ones). Rank these values in order of importance.