_______________ (VALUE)?"
The more specific you are in your rules or evidence procedures the better.
Let's say the value is "romance," and your rule is that to have romance, you have
to have a good relationship with an attractive and loving woman. But maybe you
have a more specific picture (unconsciously, perhaps): a tempestuous romance
with a blond, blue-eyed Playboy bunny with a 42 inch bust, a Fifth Avenue condo
in Manhattan, and a six-figure income. Would it be valuable to know your rule?
You bet. And your chances for getting your value of romance may be slim with
that evidence procedure or rule.
There's an important thread about values and rules: flexibility. Remember,
in any context, the system with the most flexibility, with the most choices, will be
the most effective. It is relatively easy to change your evidence procedure. When
you
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