UNLIMITED
POWER
BY ANTHONY ROBBINS
Copyright © 1991 by Robbins Research International. AM rights reserved. Reproduction in any form without the express written convent of Robbins Research International is prohibited.
P. 160
were
a high school kid, maybe freedom meant trying to imitate Warren Beatty's
sex life. But perhaps now a loving relationship provides the comfort, the
resources, and the joy that embody more real freedom
than the ability to jump
into bed with any person you meet at a bar.
Often, incongruity comes not from the value themselves, but from the
evidence procedures or rules. Success and spirituality don't
have to produce
incongruity. You can be a great success and still have a rich spiritual life. But
what if your rule for success is having a big mansion, and
your rule for spirituality
is living a simple, austere life? You'll have to either
redefine your evidence
procedures or rules, or reframe your perception. Otherwise, you could be dooming
yourself to a life of inner conflicts.
Discovering someone's values is simply a matter
of finding out what is most
important to him or her. In knowing that, you can more
effectively know not just
their needs but your own.
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