CHAPTER XVIII-
KEY POINTS
Remember, when we use words, we're using a map-and the map is not the
territory. Your map, your complex equivalence, your rule, may be very different
from my rules about what has to happen to have a value like "freedom," for
example.
Often, incongruity comes not from the value themselves, but from the evidence
procedures or rules. Success and spirituality don't have to produce incongruity.
But what if your rule for success is having a big mansion, and your rule for
spirituality is living a simple, austere life? You'll have to either redefine your
evidence procedures or rules, or reframe your perception. Otherwise, you could be
dooming yourself to a life of inner conflicts.
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