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BY ANTHONY ROBBINS
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CHAPTER XII
THE POWER OF PRECISION
We've learned that the map is not the territory.
The words we use to
describe experiences aren't the experiences. They're just the best verbal
representation we can come up with. So it stands to reason that one of the
measures of success is how accurately and precisely
our words can convey what
we want-how closely our map can approximate the territory. Just as we all can
remember times when words moved us like magic,
we can also remember times
when our communication went utterly, hopelessly awry. Maybe we thought we
were
saying one thing, but the other person got the opposite message. So just as
precise language has the ability to move people in useful directions,
sloppy
language can misdirect them. "If thought corrupts language, language can also
corrupt thought,"
wrote George Orwell, whose book 1984 is based on just that
principle.
Once you know what you want, it helps to be able to know how to get what
you want. How do you get whatever you want: ASK! But I don't
mean whine or beg
or complain or plead or grovel. And I don't mean expect someone else to do your
work for you. What I mean is learn to ask intelligently and precisely.
Here are five guidelines for asking intelligently and precisely.
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