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Appendix
12-Step and Other Anonymous Groups
It seems that a month does not pass by without another 12-step or
Anonymous Group starting up somewhere around the country. The
list below will give you an example of some of these groups. You
may need to check around in your area to see if there are others.
Once you have attended one Anonymous meeting, you will become