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Find Your Why A Practical Guide for Discovering Purpose for You

FIND YOUR PARTNER
GET YOUR PARTNER UP TO SPEED
PICK A TIME AND A PLACE


GATHER YOUR STORIES
SHARE YOUR STORIES
IDENTIFY YOUR THEMES
DRAFT YOUR WHY
Find Your Partner


The best partners are innately
curious, which makes them
great at listening and great at
asking follow-up questions.
Someone trying to get to know
you a little better will almost
always ask more probing,
unexpected and thoughtful
questions than someone who
thinks they already know
everything about you.
Remember, to find your WHY you need to pan for gold in the river of your past,
recalling stories of your life and career from which your significant themes can
emerge. Only you can retrieve those stories from your memory, but when it
comes to interpreting them, a second set of eyes and ears—a partner—is
invaluable. Listening to your stories, your partner can offer a perspective that is
nearly impossible to see for yourself. Finding the right partner is an important
part of the process. That doesn’t mean you must find a trained psychologist or
coach, just someone who genuinely wants to help you find your WHY (the
“Partner Section”
here
will teach them how to do the rest). The role of the
partner will be to take notes as you share your stories and to ask questions that
will help you find deeper meaning and significance in them. The partner is there
to help identify the golden thread, the recurring themes and ideas that are the
basis for your WHY.
You don’t have to know your partner well, but we
recommend that it’s someone with whom you feel
comfortable sharing personal information and
feelings. Though counterintuitive, we don’t
recommend selecting a partner who knows you too
well. In our experience, spouses, close relatives and
best friends have a hard time being objective. You
don’t want someone who may be tempted to either
tell your stories for you or correct the ones you tell.
The
best partners
will be hearing your stories for the first time. They will be
someone who will listen and take notes as you recall your stories. Again, they
are someone who genuinely wants to help you discover your WHY.

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