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EXPRESS
RESPECT IN
HIS LOVE
LANGUAGE.
2. Create the safe space for open and emotionally honest
dialogue to happen. If a woman can risk still respecting her man
in spite of his Neanderthal habits, he will eventually demonstrate
with his heart that he can and is willing to change.
Respect is the gateway for
such conversations to happen, and a
wise wife will offer it frequently to build up her husband, and set
the stage for such intimate encounters.
3. Express respect in his love language. It can be spoken through
“words of affirmation”-- one of Gary Chapman’s Five Love
Languages. Nothing is as important
for such a man to hear his
woman assure him that he is awesome, competent, and heroic. So
make your home a place of safety in his life, where those critical
voices he hears in his business life are
drowned out by the soothing
voice of your affirmations.
4. Respect him by offering yourself for physical affection
(yes, sex). When wives willingly and passionately make love to
their men (I said passionately, not passively), and
initiate the
act occasionally, this speaks loudly that you respect his need for
physical affection, served up his way.
5. Respect him by letting him be a man. If
a woman allows her
Joe to be Joe without mothering him, and lets him “be” who he
was designed to be without the need to fix him, Joe will drop the
remote
stuck on ESPN, come out of his cave more often, hand
you his heart, and engage you emotionally....without losing his
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SUPPORT AND
ENCOURAGE
HIM BECAUSE
HE’S UNDER
PRESSURE
MOST OF THE
TIME, BUT
WON’T TELL
YOU.
masculinity.
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