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LET HER BE
PART OF YOUR
TEAM.
10 Things Women Need In a Marriage
Do you know what the #1 need of a woman is? It is to know that
she’s significant, and that you (I’m looking at you, husbands) trea-
sure her.
You’re a wise man if you can speak
into that every day because
your spouse wants to know that she... is...valued. And you value
your spouse ten different ways:
1. She needs to be number one. Your wife needs to feel that she
is more important
than your business or job, and especially more
important than your mother, children, friends, sports, and hobbies.
2. She needs intimacy. When your
wife is stressed out and
overwhelmed from putting out fires all day while trying to meet
that important deadline, she needs to know that you are willing
to share an intimate moment of
comfort without demanding
explanations or giving lectures. In other words, don’t fix her. Lend
an ear, and let her process.
3. She needs you to be vulnerable. Open or unobstructed
communication is hugely
important to the female gender, and that
you can be emotionally available for her.
4. She needs to be praised. Make it a habit to often acknowledge
and praise her for her work accomplishments so she can feel like
she’s a valuable part of your life.
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STOP THE
INSULTS IN AN
ATTEMPT TO
MOTIVATE HIM
TO CHANGE.
5. Let her be part of your team. Your
wife needs to feel free to
help you and contribute to the things that matter to you without
fearing retaliation and anger.
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