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6. Respect him by giving him space. Lets say you and your man 
get into a heated spat. Sometimes the tendency is for a woman to 
push for instant conflict resolution. Is that true? What’s going on 
in your mature man’s mind is totally the opposite. He’s going, “I 
need some space now!” Give him the space he needs to go to his 
cave and process his thoughts. He might be new to this, so even 
allow for him to complain and express himself in a way he needs 
to be heard until he eventually comes around.
7. Support and encourage him because he’s under pressure 
most of the time, but won’t tell you. A man fighting to provide 
for his family needs constant affirmation, and that she believes 
in him and looks up to him. Wives must see themselves in the 
privileged role of offering their men what no other person can -- 
full acceptance of their masculine truth. 
A woman who reaches this level of respect for her man will have a 
man who’ll love her forever.
8. Appreciate all parts of your man, not just the parts that 
connect to you emotionally. If you appreciate his muscles, 
athleticism, creative flair, how he takes care of the bills, mows your 
beautiful lawn with accurate precision, or fixes things around the 
house without you asking, tell him how much you appreciate it 
all, and often. What may happen next is he’ll start to open up the 
relational parts that have been lacking.

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BE ATTRACTIVE 
FOR HIM. 
9. Be attractive for him. I’m not talking about how a woman 
looks in a two-piece, three kids later, although taking care of 
oneself physically is important to husbands. The attraction I speak 
of that a mature man desires goes beyond the physical and into the 
emotional. When he connects with her at her best, sparks fly. That 
means a woman’s love of self, her passion for life, and how she 
carries herself will transcend his love for you. As you embody your 
attractiveness, he will reflect that same passion. A woman who 
wants a mature man will invest in living life to its fullest.