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attention. She did not even need to share her Love Letter with her partner. 
 
This is her letter: 
 
 
Dear Jim, 
 
1. Anger.. I am frustrated that you want to read a book and this is our last evening together 
before you leave. I am angry that you ignore me. I am angry that you do not want to spend this 
time with me. I am angry that we don't spend more time together. There is always something 
more important than me. I want to feel you love me. 
 
2. Sad.. I am sad that you don't want to be with me. I am sad that you work so hard. I feel like 
you wouldn't even notice if I wasn't here. I am sad that you are always so busy. I am sad that 
you don't want to talk with me. I feel hurt that you do not care. I don't feel special. 
 
3. Fear.. I am afraid you don't even know why I am upset. I am afraid you don't care. I am afraid 
of sharing my feelings with you. I am afraid you will reject me. I am afraid we are drifting 
further apart. I am scared that I can't do anything about it. I am afraid that I am boring to you. I 
am afraid that you don't like me. 
 
4. Regret.. I feel so embarrassed wanting to spend time with you when you don't even care. I 
feel embarrassed getting so upset. I am sorry if this sounds demanding. I am sorry that I am not 
more loving and accepting. I am sorry that I was cold when you didn't want to spend time with 
me. I am sorry that I didn't give you another chance. I am sorry that I stop trusting your love. 
 
5. Love.. I do love you. That's why I brought the mango. I wanted to do something to please 
you. I wanted to spend some special time together. I still want to have a special evening. I