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www.al-islamforall@org 54 If the wife chooses to go 'on the Pill,' remember that there are sometimes side- effects, and that it is not always advisable to take a drug over a long period of time. Taking the Pill is often recommended for new wives because it is relatively safe and foolproof, but doctors often recommend taking a break from it after a couple of years. Some varieties of the Pill are not permissible in the view of those madhhabs that regard all abortion as sinful, as they cause the fertilised egg to be dislodged and lost, which is a kind of early abortion. 'Morning-after' pills are of this type, killing the embryo after fertilization has taken place. Taking the body temperature regularly can indicate the times when ovulation is most likely; and avoiding these times is the most natural method of contraception. However this 'rhythm' method is notoriously unreliable-and because of its favour among Catholics it has been nicknamed 'Vatican Roulette'! Remember, too, that most women feel most sexual desire at the very time when they are ovulating, so other means must be taken if they are to have a satisfactory sex life. Contract. An Islamically-valid marriage requires the fulfillment of five obligatory conditions: (1) the consent of the guardian (or in his absence, or unjust refusal, the qadi); (2) the consent of the man and the woman; (3) the agreed upon dower (mahr); (4) two Muslim witnesses of good character (shahiday adl); (5) an 'offer and immediate acceptance' (ijab wa-qubul) using the word 'marriage' or 'wedding.' Practices which are sunnah but not obligatory are: (1) the engagement proposal (khitbah) made earlier to the guardian or in his presence; (2) the religious speech (khutbah) before the marriage; (3) the bride and groom should see each other and learn about each other before consent is given; (4) friends and relations should attend the ceremony; (5) the couple should intend 'upholding the sunnah, preserving modesty and seeking offspring'; (6) the ceremony should ideally take place in the local mosque and during the month of Shawwal. Download 1 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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