Microsoft Word Marriage Guide doc
Download 1 Mb. Pdf ko'rish
|
English The Muslim Marriage Guide
- Bu sahifa navigatsiya:
- Circumcision
Children.
These should always be welcomed and wanted. It is irresponsible to bring into the world children who will be hurt because they are not wanted. This is one of the things you have to think most carefully about even before you get married, because it is all too easy to get pregnant very quickly, even on the wedding night, and your families may well put pressure on both of you to do this. See 'Contraception'; and also the texts by Silma Buckley and Dr. Alia Schleifer mentioned at the end of this book. Circumcision (khitan). According to some madhhabs, this is not completely obligatory for adult male converts, but it is nevertheless a very strong Sunnah. An uncircumcised penis quickly accumulates smelly material under the foreskin, and medical studies have indicated a connection between failure to circumcise and cancer of this organ. 'Female circumcision' of the type practiced by some people in Somalia, Egypt and some other African countries is not the same thing at all. If an adult woman chooses to be circumcised, perhaps for cosmetic reasons, that is up to her. However, to remove the clitoris of a girl child is almost the equivalent of removing a boy's penis, and is really a mutilation forbidden by Islam. Cleanliness. This is one of the basic aspects of Islam, and has been likened to half the faith. (Hadith in Ibn Hanbal.) It is certainly vital to marriage. The Blessed Prophet recommended ten things as being part of the fitra: 'Cutting the hair close on the lips, letting the beard grow, using the miswak for the teeth, cleaning out the nose, paring the nails, washing out the base of the fingers, removal of the hair in the armpits and pubic areas, washing the affected parts after a call of nature, and the rinsing of the mouth.' (Muslim.) Some people need reminding of the obvious point of adab that not all of these cleansing activities should be done in public. People who have shaved off a large amount of hair in the bath or shower should remember that it can clog the drains. The Prophet's preferred method of disposal of hair-cuttings and nail-parings was burning or burial, since The Muslim Marriage Guide: Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood |
Ma'lumotlar bazasi mualliflik huquqi bilan himoyalangan ©fayllar.org 2024
ma'muriyatiga murojaat qiling
ma'muriyatiga murojaat qiling