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The Laws of Human Nature
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partner or spouse, choice of, 118 passive-aggressiveness, see aggression, passive Pasteur, Louis, 258 , 351 patience, 168 , 494 Pavese, Cesare, 130 Payne, Oliver H., 477 –79, 488 peaceful human, myth of, 501 peak experiences, 227 , 383 –84 Pearl Harbor attack, 163 –64 Pennsylvania Railroad, 481 , 487 people expectations about, 190 viewing with expansive attitude, 228 –29 Perelle, Charles, 105 –6 Pericles, 14 –21, 27 , 36 –38, 41 , 457 Perkins, Frances, 429 –30 Persia, 465 persistence, 514 –15 persona, 101 personality, 101 Personalizer, 123 , 129 perspective farsighted, 160 –62, 169 –71 see also shortsightedness persuasion, see influence Philip II of Spain, King, 168 –69, 442 , 444 –46, 451 –52 Picasso, Pablo, 463 , 469 Picture of Dorian Gray, The (Wilde), 201 Pixar, 298 Pleaser, 125 –26, 129 , 219 pleasure, pursuit of, 386 , 581 pleasure principle, 28 , 29 political correctness, 146 Pope, Alexander, 153 pornography, 141 possession, and desire, 147 potential, realizing, 10 –11 power, 101 , 128 , 494 character and, 117 pragmatism, 310 –11 praise for effort vs. talent, 195 –96 envy and, 275 –77, 284 presence, 131 balancing absence with, 99 –100, 467 –68 present circumstances, 150 , 157 –59, 169 –71 Price, Ray, 238 primal inclinations, 374 , 378 –79 prioritizing, 471 Prohibition, 163 projection gender, see gender projections of Shadow, 246 promises, 468 –69, 507 Proust, Marcel, 333 , 345 psychiatry, 75 psychoanalysis, 538 psychosomatic maladies, 94 , 220 Punching Bag, 430 –31 purpose, sense of, 356 –90 absorbing purposeful energy, 382 creating a ladder of descending goals, 382 –83 discovering your calling in life, 378 –80 false purposes vs., 385 in groups, 433 –34 losing yourself in the work, 383 –85 strategies for developing, 378 –85 using resistance and negative spurs, 380 –82 purposes, false, 377 , 385 –90 causes and cults, 386 –87 cynicism, 389 pursuit of attention, 388 –89 pursuit of money and success, 387 –88 pursuit of pleasure, 386 real purpose vs., 385 Putin, Vladimir, 93 Quiet Pragmatist, 464 railroads, 478 –84 Pennsylvania Railroad, 481 , 487 Raphael, 283 rationality, 13 , 19 –21, 27 , 37 , 40 –41 defining, 26 –27 Rigid Rationalist and, 252 –53 strategies toward, 37 –41 see also irrationality Raw Youth, A (Dostoyevsky), 21 reactive mode, 150 , 158 , 162 , 170 Reagan, Ronald, 426 realistic attitude, 310 –11, 316 –17 reality, 96 , 212 , 389 , 585 reality groups, 422 –23, 424 , 431 –37 Red Guards, 397 , 404 Red Rebels, 398 –402, 405 Reed, Luther, 103 Relentless Rebel, 122 –23, 129 religion, 115 , 186 , 252 , 306 , 373 , 385 grandiosity and, 306 repression, 231 –60 see also Shadow Republic Oil, 484 resentful attitude, 222 –24 resistance, 172 –201 in developing sense of purpose, 380 –82 of others, using, 196 –98 rewards and gifts, 192 Riario, Girolamo, 322 –24, 326 –27 Rice, George, 484 –85 Richelieu, Cardinal, 61 , 195 rider and horse metaphor, 40 rigidity, influence and, 198 Rigid Rationalist, 252 –53 RKO Pictures, 106 –7 Robespierre, Maximilien, 250 , 508 , 530 , 531 Robinson, Isabel, 267 –68 Rockefeller, John D., 474 –89, 497 , 499 –500, 504 Benson and, 482 –84, 488 –89 childhood of, 486 –87 Clark and, 474 –77, 488 , 489 Fawcett and, 479 Payne and, 478 –79, 488 Rice and, 484 –85 Scott and, 481 –82, 488 –89 Rockefeller, William, 486 , 487 role-playing, 72 –101 authenticity and, 97 –98 impression management, 82 , 97 –101 negative connotations of term, 97 –98 see also nonverbal communication Romans, 457 –58 Romanticism, 534 , 559 Ronche, Giacomo del, 325 –26 Roosevelt, Eleanor, 120 , 219 , 260 Roosevelt, Franklin Delano, 120 , 177 –79, 219 , 433 Perkins and, 429 –30 Roosevelt, Sara, 219 Roots (Haley), 51 Rubin, Robert, 285 –86 rules, 373 grandiosity and, 313 –14 in groups, 417 –18, 422 Russell, Richard, 174 –81 Sacre coronation carriage, 521 , 531 –32, 536 Saint, 250 saintliness, 100 , 194 , 220 , 241 Sakhalin Island, 208 –9 Saldivar, Yolanda, 281 –82 salons, 553 Sand, George, 338 sans-culottes, 527 Sarkozy, Nicolas, 93 –94 Sartre, Jean-Paul, 378 Saul, King, 273 Savior, 126 schadenfreude, 275 , 289 Schary, Dore, 106 Scipio Africanus, 457 Schopenhauer, Arthur, 1 , 79 –80, 149 , 230 , 275 , 582 Schorr, Daniel, 235 scientists, 350 –51 Scott, Tom, 480 –82, 488 –89 Selena, 281 –82 self childhood sense of, 348 higher and lower, 10 –11, 469 –70 social, 348 viewing with expansive attitude, 226 –27 self-absorption, 42 , 78 –79, 82 , 142 , 182 , 463 , 577 , 582 self-assessment and learning, masculine and feminine styles of, 353 –54 self-awareness, 113 –14, 247 grandiosity and, 310 groups and, 391 self-confidence, 92 , 94 , 113 –14, 354 , 422 , 437 , 458 Self-entitled Slacker, 279 –80 self-esteem, 43 –48, 389 , 422 aggression and, 496 –97 low, 354 self-image, 43 , 44 , 47 , 48 , 389 self-knowledge, 38 of limits, 310 and overcoming negative traits, 9 self-love, 42 , 47 , 48 , 50 narcissism and, 47 see also narcissism, narcissists self-objects, 45 self-opinion, 172 –201, 422 aggression and, 491 –92 autonomy in, 185 , 186 , 191 –92 goodness in, 185 , 186 , 194 –95 grandiose, see grandiosity intelligence in, 185 , 186 , 193 –94 low, 187 , 196 personalized, 185 –86 your own, 201 self-sabotage and self-destructive behavior, 116 , 161 , 229 , 240 see also attitude, negative Severus, Cassius, 116 Sexualizer, 124 –25 Sforza, Caterina, 320 –32 Sforza, Galeazzo Maria, 320 –22, 324 , 327 , 328 , 330 Shackleton, Ernest Henry, 67 –71, 355 Shadow, 4 , 6 , 231 –60, 472 “accidental” behavior and, 245 contradictory behavior and, 241 –42, 244 , 248 –54 creation of, 242 –43 denial and, 244 –45 dreams and, 256 –57 embracing, 257 –58 emotional outbursts and, 244 exploring, 258 –59 Extreme Entrepreneur and, 253 –54 Fanatic and, 251 –52 generations and, 549 integration of, 254 –60 Jung on, 242 leaders and, 247 niceness and, 259 , 260 overidealization and, 245 –46 Passive-Aggressive Charmer and, 250 –51 projection and, 246 Rigid Rationalist and, 252 –53 Saint and, 250 seeing, 255 –57 showing, 259 –60 Snob and, 252 –53 Tough Guy and, 249 –50 Shadow Enabler, 427 –29 Shakespeare, William, 81 , 85 , 144 shamans, 349 , 355 Sharp-Hughes Tool Company, 102 , 103 , 104 , 107 , 109 –10 Shelley, Harriet, 262 , 264 Shelley, Mary, 261 –71, 284 Jane Williams and, 262 –71, 274 –76, 286 Shelley, Percy Bysshe, 261 –70 Shelley, Percy Florence, 261 , 264 –67, 270 Sherman, William Tecumseh, 167 shortsightedness, 150 –71 lost in trivia, 168 –69 signs of, and strategies to overcome, 162 –69 tactical hell, 165 ticker tape fever, 166 –68 unintended consequences, 162 –65 Shuttlesworth, Fred, 363 , 364 silence, 468 Sixtus IV, Pope, 322 , 323 Sixtus V, Pope, 446 smiles, 90 Snob, 252 –53 social animals, 24 , 25 , 30 , 42 , 188 , 189 , 280 , 410 –11, 414 , 491 social force, 408 –11, 422 social media, 6 , 26 , 49 , 146 , 194 , 247 , 389 , 410 , 413 , 423 , 462 , 468 , 551 aggression and, 491 envy and, 286 grandiosity and, 307 social personality, 391 sociology, 538 Socrates, 162 , 199 –200, 465 solitary confinement, 409 Sontag, Susan, 355 Sophocles, 498 soul, 229 –30 Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC), 362 –63, 365 Southern Improvement Company (SIC), 478 –80, 488 South Sea Company, 150 –58, 415 Soviet Union, 234 Spain, 168 –69, 444 –46, 452 Sparta, 13 –14, 16 –18 spouse, choice of, 118 Spruce Goose, 106 Stalin, Joseph, 37 , 54 –59 Standard Oil, 478 –85, 487 –88, 502 standards of excellence, 471 status need for, 407 seeking through attention, 6 Status Fiend, 280 –81 Steinbrenner, George, 281 Stendhal, 88 Stevenson, Robert Louis, 248 Stewart, Martha, 287 Stirrer, 426 –27, 432 Stowe, Harriet Beecher, 167 Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, The (Stevenson), 248 stress, 372 –73, 375 –76 relationships in handling of, 112 –13 rising pressure, 34 –35 strongman, 462 Sublime, 319 , 584 –86 submission/dominance cues, 86 , 91 –95, 100 Subtle-Superiority Strategy, 504 –5 success envy and, 283 –84 pursuit of, 387 –88 sudden, 34 , 283 Suetonius, 223 superiority bias, 31 –32 Subtle-Superiority Strategy, 504 –5 Superior Man, 346 –47 Surin, Jean-Joseph, 60 –62 Swann’s Way (Proust), 345 Swift, Jonathan, 153 , 154 Sympathy Strategy, 505 –6 symptoms, psychosomatic, 94 , 220 Syracuse, 17 –18 taboos, 141 , 373 tactical hell, 165 Talman, William, 280 Teacher, 464 technology, 411 , 551 , 561 , 577 aggression and, 502 grandiosity and, 307 internet, 49 , 502 see also social media terrorism, 161 Thalberg, Irving, 226 theatrical quality of social life, 81 , 82 see also role-playing thinking, masculine and feminine styles of, 350 –51 Tiberius, 223 –24 ticker tape fever, 166 –68 Tidewater Pipeline Company, 482 –84 time, 169 –71, 555 –61 awakening to the shortness of life, 580 –81 Time, 232 timidity, 515 Tolstaya, Sonya Behrs, 63 –66 Tolstoy, Leo, 63 –66 Tom Sawyer (Twain), 191 –92 tone, and authority, 466 –67 Tough Guy, 249 –50 toxic types, 8 , 47 , 121 –27 Big Talker, 124 –25 Drama Magnet, 123 –24 Easy Moralizer, 126 –27 Hyperperfectionist, 121 –22, 129 Pampered Prince/Princess, 125 Personalizer, 123 , 129 Pleaser, 125 –26, 129 , 219 Relentless Rebel, 122 –23, 129 Savior, 126 Sexualizer, 124 –25 tribalism, 6 , 423 –24, 463 trigger points from early childhood, 32 –33 trivia, being lost in, 168 –69 troubadours, 559 Truman, Harry, 175 truth, 138 , 142 Truth Seeker, 463 –64 Tydings, Millard, 175 –76 Tyrone, Hugh O’Neill, Earl of, 447 ubiquity, illusion of, 138 –39 unconscious, 258 uniqueness, 373 –74, 378 , 388 , 411 , 470 –71, 516 unintended consequences, 162 –65 Ursuline nuns, 59 –62 utopia, 140 , 306 Valentino, Rudolph, 549 validation, 184 , 186 nonverbal, 410 see also self-opinion Vidal, Gore, 272 Vietnam War, 107 , 234 , 235 , 365 , 366 , 369 , 417 , 425 , 548 vision, of leaders, 458 –59, 465 –66 Visionary Artist, 463 visual system, 140 Voltaire, 532 von Sternberg, Josef, 106 Voting Rights Act, 365 voyeurism, 146 Wagner, Richard, 221 –22, 246 warfare, 501 –3 Washington Post, 235 , 236 Watergate scandal, 96 , 236 –38, 425 , 548 Watson, Thomas, 433 Watzlawick, Paul, 197 Wayne, John, 106 , 107 Weakland, John H., 197 Wells, Frank, 293 –97, 300 Whitman, Walt, 71 Wilde, Oscar, 201 Wilder, Billy, 192 Williams, Edward, 262 –67, 269 Williams, Jane, 262 –71, 274 –76, 286 Wilson, Woodrow, 233 Wise Blood (O’Connor), 565 , 568 , 59 Wollstonecraft, Mary, 262 , 560 Woman to Worship Him, 347 –48 women niceness and, 260 successful, envy of, 284 –85 see also gender roles and masculine and feminine traits Wonderful World of Disney, The, 294 Woods, Tiger, 378 work world, 371 –72, 494 , 548 world, viewing with expansive attitude, 225 World War II, 104 , 175 , 318 , 417 , 545 , 548 , 554 , 560 Chanel and, 135 –36 Pearl Harbor attack, 163 –64 Wren, Christopher, 279 –80 wu-wei, 352 Xenophon, 319 , 454 , 465 Yahoo!, 298 Yamamoto, Kajiro, 379 Yizhen Middle School (YMS), 391 –92, 394 , 396 , 398 –401, 403 –5 youth culture, 541 , 543 , 576 –77 zao fan, 394 zeitgeist, 518 , 543 , 547 , 550 , 551 , 554 , 558 Zeus, 19 Zhuge Liang, 162 A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z About the Author Robert Greene, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power, The 33 Strategies of War, The Art of Seduction, and Mastery, is an internationally renowned expert on power strategies. 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