Practice Mental Rehearsal
Mental rehearsal is vital. The more you preprogram
yourself to bounce back,
the easier it is for you to overcome the failures and rejections that are part of the
selling life. Talk to yourself positively. Say things like “I can do it! I can do it! I
can do it!” whenever you feel fears of failure or rejection.
Interestingly enough, when you make the decision that no matter what
happens, you will never give up, your self-esteem increases immediately. You
respect yourself more. Your self-confidence skyrockets. Even though you have
not
yet stepped out of your office, the very act of making the decision that you
are going to succeed, that you can do it,
that you will never quit, no matter what,
improves your “reputation” with yourself. You
see yourself in a more positive
light. You feel more like a winner. You are more composed and self-assured.
You become more capable of dealing with the ups and downs of daily selling
life. The very act of resolving to persist until
you succeed changes your
personality and makes you a stronger and more powerful person.