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BY ANTHONY ROBBINS
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The precision model is a map of some of the most
pernicious wrong turns in
communication that people often take. The idea is to notice them and redirect
them in a more specific direction. It provides us with the means to qualify people's
distortions, deletions,
and generalizations WHILE STILL MAINTAINING
RAPPORT WITH THEM.
Let's start with the pinkies. On the right hand,
you have the word
"universals." On the left, the words, "all, every, never."
Universals are fine-when
they're true. If you say that every person needs oxygen, that's different from saying
"Kids
today have no manners," or "I don't know why I pay these people. They never
work." If you hear these universals,
you just repeat the statement, emphasizing
the universal quantifier:
"All kids are ill-mannered?" or
"Your employees never work?"
the answers will go something like this: "Well, many not all kids-just these
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