part is the establishment of the key."
-George Bernard Shaw
Why do people react so differently to identical messages? Why does one
person see the glass as half-empty and another see it as half-full? Shaw s quote is
precisely right. If you address someone in the right key, you can do anything. If
you address someone in the wrong key, you can do nothing. If you want to be a
master communicator or a master persuader, you have to know how to find the
right key.
The path is through metaprograms. Metaprograms are powerful internal
patterns that help determine how people form internal representations and direct
their behavior. Metaprograms are the internal programs (or sorts) we use in
deciding what to pay attention to. We distort, delete, and generalize information
because the conscious mind can only pay attention to so many pieces of
information at any given time. To communicate effectively with a person, you have
to understand his/her metaprograms.
The FIRST METAPROGRAM involves MOVING TOWARD something or
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