should set an example to their children and teach them
how to communicate their ideas to others in a quiet and
logical manner, so long as that does not transgress
against the rights of others.
• Choosing the right time and
circumstances to discuss
problems and avoiding discussing the problem when the
family is tired and exhausted, or getting ready to eat a
meal
or go to bed, so that the discussion will not leave a
bad impression on the children.
• Parents should understand an important fact, which is
that
marital arguments may, in time, cause the children
to develop psychological problems and physical
disorders, the most significant of which are nightmares
and bedwetting.
• Reducing daily pressure that
family members may suffer
by going out on trips or taking the children with them to
visit someone they love such as a grandparent.
Finally, both parents should remember that they are the
examples the children will follow and they will have the deepest
impact on shaping the children’s attitudes and behaviour.
Hitting children
Children usually expect protection, security and love. If the
parents resort to hitting and violence as the only way of dealing
with
the children, this will cause frustration and make the child
confused, because he is encountering violence and smacking
from those from whom he expects protection and security.
Hitting children creates a cowardly individual who is afraid of any
person who waves his hand in his
face and is scared to do
anything, even if it is useful, for fear of exposing himself to
physical harm. In addition to that, the child’s
character will be
introverted and unable to deal with pain.
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