stayed depressed for a long time until through their intuition they experienced a vision. Strong
and wondrous beings (the Martians) would be coming across the universe to love, serve, and
support them. Suddenly they felt cherished. As they shared their vision their depression lifted,
and they happily began preparing for the arrival of the Martians.
These secrets of motivation are still applicable. Men are motivated and empowered when they
feel needed. When a man does not feel needed in a relationship, he gradually becomes passive
and less energized; with each passing day he has less to give the relationship. On the other
hand, when he feels trusted to do his best to fulfill her needs and appreciated for his efforts, he
is empowered and has more to give.
Like the Venusians, women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished. When a
woman does not feel cherished in a relationship she gradually becomes compulsively
responsible and exhausted from giving too much. On the other hand when she feels cared for
and respected, she is fulfilled and has more to give as well.
WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN
A man falling in love with a woman is similar to what took place when the first Martian
discovered the Venusians. Stuck in his cave and unable to find the source of his depression, he
was searching the sky with his telescope. As if he had been struck by lightning, in one glorious
moment his life was permanently changed. He had glimpsed through his telescope a vision he
described as awesome beauty and grace.
He had discovered the Venusians. His body lit on fire. As he watched the Venusians, for the
first time in his life he began to care about someone other than himself. From just one glimpse
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