person to be with. I want someone exciting and interesting and you are definitely not that
person. You have disappointed me. You are selfish, uncaring, and bad."
"Nothing is working" translated into Martian means "Today I am so overwhelmed and I am so
grateful that I can share my feelings with you. It helps me so much to feel better. Today it
seems like nothing I do works. I know that this is not true, but I sure feel that way when I get
so overwhelmed by all the things I still have to do. Would you give me a hug and tell me that I
am doing a great job. It would sure feel good."
Without this translation, when a woman says "Nothing is working" a man may hear "You never
do anything right. I can't trust you. If I hadn't listened to you I wouldn't be in this mess.
Another man would have fixed things, but you made them worse."
"You don't love me anymore" translated into Martian means "Today I am feeling as though you
don't love me. I am afraid I have pushed you away. I know you really do love me, you do so
much for me. Today I am just feeling a little insecure. Would you reassure me of your love and
tell me those three magic words, I love you. When you do that it feels so good."
Without this translation, when a woman says "You don't love me anymore" a man may hear "I
have given you the best years of my life, and you have given me nothing. You used me. You are
selfish and cold. You do what you want to do, for you and only you. You do not care about
anybody. I was a fool for loving you. Now I have nothing."
"We are always in a hurry" translated into Martian means "I feel so rushed today. I don't like
rushing. I wish our life was not so hurried. I know it is nobody's fault and I certainly don't
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