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Finish Give Yourself the Gift of Done
“Until” Will Kill You
Some noble obstacles are personal and unique. They’re tailor-made to you and would be impossible to detail in a book that millions of people will read. (Speaking that into reality.) Others are common and easily identified, such as the word “until.” I’ve used this one in my own life many times. “I can’t do my taxes until I know what kind of business I’m really trying to build.” I told this to a friend, who laughed at me. I was attempting to tell him that until I had a deep purpose, which I’ve already written about, a perfect mission for my business and really my whole life, I couldn’t figure out a way to make my taxes easier. “Until” is just perfectionism wearing a Halloween costume. Karen won’t start her blog until she’s checked in with a copyright lawyer first. She is concerned that her blog will become so successful that someone will steal the content. She wrote me an e-mail and expressed her concern that this thief will steal her royalties on T-shirts, foam hats, and the graphic novel adaptation. As a fellow writer, I can’t tell you how much cash I’ve made from the thriving foam hat industry. That might seem like a silly worry, but how often are our worries rational? This is such a great example of the first kind of noble obstacle, because how easy is it to find a good copyright lawyer? And if they’re anything like the lawyers I’ve worked with, they’re expensive. Now, before she starts writing, Karen has to save up for legal fees. Brilliant! Writers aren’t the only ones who use the first kind of noble obstacle. I know some guys who say they can’t work out until they pick the best exercise program. They’d hate to make a mistake and pick the wrong one. So instead they don’t choose a single one because they just haven’t had time to do the research. “Until” is a hurdle you throw up on your track until the lane is so clogged you couldn’t possibly get started today. Look at all those obstacles. Today’s not the best day to go. The tricky thing is that “until” often wears a cloak of responsibility. It pretends that it’s not about being lazy but rather about making sure everything is in order before you start. It would be foolish to come up with a great invoice in order before you start. It would be foolish to come up with a great invoice system until I really know what my business is about. Once I have a core mission, the rest of the pieces will fall into place, but until then, it would be wasted effort. Until I know why I have an issue with food, I can’t walk around the block at a brisk pace for more minutes today than I did yesterday. Until I know what my entire book is about I can’t write the first hundred words. Until I know where all the stuff in every room of my house is going to go I can’t clean this one room. Until I pick the perfect goal I can’t work on anything. That’s what tripped up so many people during the 30 Days of Hustle. One participant remarked, “I honestly have so many ideas and can find justification for each of them being ‘the one.’ It leaves me pursuing several things at a level of mediocrity.” Until I get rid of distractions I can’t get anything done. If we believe we have to eliminate all distractions before we get work done, we will never work. There will always be one more amazing distraction. Our minds will do anything to avoid the challenge of focusing on something. The second you hear the word “until” pop into your mouth, spit it out like Brussels sprouts that have been served without bacon. You can always tell how gross a vegetable is by how much bacon has to be added to it to do all the heavy lifting. Download 1.11 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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