How To Quit Porn
) Hateful nature and personality changes
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Dr. David Smith - How To Quit Porn (2nd Edition)
3) Hateful nature and personality changes
Porn is based on hate. There is no love. No hugs, kisses, smiles, or intimacy. When you get separated far enough from porn, it becomes extremely apparent how twisted that really is. The content becomes disturbing and very unappealing when you view it from a normal rational lens. There is nothing to be desired. Biologically, porn can lead to feelings of unworthiness and hate for the “other”. Porn perpetuates untrue stereotypes and falsehoods, spreading hate inside of you. Some of the content may be more direct at conveying negative emotions to you and can be especially destructive to your emotional health. Never wallow in negativity. This kind of sick content is surprisingly addictive and dangerous. Repeated watching of this dark content makes the personality hateful and less empathetic. It strengthens negative emotions such as jealousy, distrust, cynicism, and apathy. Any sincere human connection is lost. Gradually, faith in humanity is diminished as porn replaces reality. The images develop a force of their own, so much so that addicts prefer the images and are no longer interested in being around others. The resulting lack of socialization and connection leads to a much deeper unhappiness. For those who have had a particularly bad experience, this can result in severe addiction, self- harming, suicide, and committing sexual crimes. Watching porn and avoiding any mental health illnesses or perverted thoughts would be surprising and require an unusually stable brain. Having porn in one’s life gives it the possibility to surge in intensity when one isn’t feeling well. There is no way to overstate the severity of the problem, and only the naive will underestimate it. The aggregation of harmful individual experiences results in a large social impact. Continued pornography consumption at the current rate will lead to the degradation and long-term downfall of society. Historically, excessive sexual indulgence has been seen to precede the fall of civilizations. We are at a precipice, a critical juncture where our choices affect how the future will unfold. Individuals addicted to porn exhibit decreased productivity at work, a slowness of mind, and depression, all of which are incredibly costly for society as a whole. Porn acts like a pollution that accumulates in the air and destroys the ability of our brains to naturally function. Unquestionably, there is a causal relationship between porn and the rise of mental illness. A society made up of weakened people from porn is unable to make progress. Currently we see a high divorce rate, more social dysfunction and hate, all of which should be directed back to the root cause, porn, but ends up being scapegoated on so many other things. We are creating divides between each other, but in reality, all these falsehoods have been worsened by porn, the true enemy of mankind. Throughout history, sexual health has been stressed. Only recently has the ubiquitous nature of porn shattered all of this. Lust has been considered a vice, and abstinence was prioritized. Know that even though porn is pervasive, that does not make it okay. Don’t be a trend-follower or assume it must be okay because so many people are watching it. Sex is made for you to be an active participant and get a mutual connection out of it. Instead, porn takes advantage of your genuine feelings and spins it into a web that ensnares you. It spreads negativity, cruelty, and animalistic behavior, bringing out the worst in humanity. It is designed to give a twisted pleasure from watching it, and viewers begin to internalize it and incorporate it into their own personality. Viewing porn is incredibly demoralizing and doesn’t even come close to what a sexual experience should be like, though it acts as a substitute. It takes away a genuine interest in sex because of a lack of emotional satisfaction, diminishing motivation when it comes to getting sex and ultimately achieving life outcomes, only encouraging the pursuit of more porn instead. While sex was supposed to help with emotional bonding and start a family, porn does the opposite. It weakens our own self- image, breeds hate, and holds others to an unrealistic standard, creating an epidemic of mental health disfunction. Download 0.56 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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