Gradually, as I felt being loved for the ways I could support her and our family, I became less
driven to be a great success. I started to slow down, and to my surprise not only our
relationship but also my work flourished, becoming more successful without my having to
work as hard.
I found that when I was succeeding at home, my work reflected that success. I realized that
success in the work world was not achieved through hard work alone. It was also dependent on
my ability to inspire trust in others. When I felt loved by my family, not only did I feel more
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confident, but others also trusted and appreciated me more.
How a Women Can Help
Bonnie's support played a big part in this change. In addition to sharing her honest and loving
feelings, she was also very persistent in asking me to do things for her and then giving me a lot
of appreciation when I did them. Gradually, I started to realize how wonderful it is to be loved
for doing little things. I was relieved from feeling that I had to do great things to be loved. It
was a revelation.
WHEN WOMEN GIVE POINTS
Woman possess the special ability to appreciate the little things of fife as much as the big
things. This is a blessing for men. Most men strive for greater and greater success because they
believe it will make them worthy of love. Deep inside, they crave love and admiration from
others. They do not know that they can draw that love and admiration to them without having
to be a greater success.
A woman has the ability to heal a man of this addiction to success by appreciating the little
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