secret to fulfilling a man lies in learning to express love through your feelings, not necessarily
through your actions.
Philosophically speaking, when a woman feels loving, her behavior will automatically express
that love. When a man expresses himself in loving behavior, automatically his feelings will
follow and become more loving.
Even if a man is not feeling his love for a woman, he can still decide to do something loving for
her. If his offering is received and appreciated, then he will begin to feel his love for her again.
Doing is an excellent way to prime a man's love pump.
However, women are very different. A woman generally does not feel loved if she doesn't feel
cared about, understood, or respected. Making a decision to do something more for her partner
will not help her feel more loving. Instead it may actually fuel her resentment. When a woman
is not feeling her loving feelings, she needs to focus her energies directly on healing her
negative feelings and definitely not on doing more.
A man needs to prioritize "loving behavior," for this will ensure that his partner's love needs
are met. It will open her heart and also open his heart to feel more loving. A man's heart opens
as he succeeds in fulfilling a woman.
A woman needs to prioritize "loving attitudes and feelings." which will ensure that her
partner's love needs are fulfilled. As a woman is able to express loving attitudes and feelings
toward a man, he feels motivated to give more. This then assists her in opening her heart even
more. A woman's heart opens more as she is able to get the support she needs.
Women are sometimes unaware of when a man really needs love. At such times a woman can
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