caring because he doesn't feel needed. He does not realize that by finding someone who needs
him, he can shake off his depression and be motivated again.
When a man doesn't feel he is making a positive difference in someone else's life, it is hard for
him to continue caring about his fife and relationships. It is difficult to be motivated when he
is not needed. To become motivated again he needs to feel appreciated, trusted, and accepted.
Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.
WHEN A WOMAN LOVES A MAN
A woman falling in love with a man is similar to what took place when the first Venusian
believed that the Martians were coming. She dreamed that a fleet of spaceships from the
heavens would land and a race of strong and caring Martians would emerge. These beings
would not need nurturing but instead wanted to provide for and take care of the Venusians.
These Martians were very devoted and were inspired by the Venusian beauty and culture. The
Martians recognized that their power and competence were meaningless without someone to
serve. These wondrous and admirable beings had found relief and inspiration in the promise
of serving, pleasing, and fulfilling the Venusians. What a miracle!
Other Venusians had similar dreams and instantly came out of their depressions. The
realization that transformed the Venusians was the belief that help was on the way because the
Martians were coming. The Venusians had been depressed because they felt isolated and alone.
To come out of depression they needed to feel that loving help was on the way.
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Most men have little awareness of how important it is to a woman to feel supported by
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